Should I give him a second chance

Hey ladies,

Just wanted to point out something that I realized a few months ago and you can tell me what you think.

I hate to generalize but this is what it seems like in any case.

You ever realize that guys give us one chance? We don’t get multiple chances. They have this idea of what you should be like and if you are not it they move on.

Not much thinking going on there…they make it look easy.

Meanwhile, you are still there wondering why he doesn’t call you or if he feels the same way about you as you feel about him; why he never does what he says he’s going to do; does he want to get more serious; does he want to marry you…

So why do we continue to give them chance after chance after chance?

This is where you have to know who you are at the core and what you are willing and not willing to put up with.

No one can help you with this, ladies.

What is it that you want from your relationships or your interaction with men you meet and date?

When you know exactly who you are and what you want, then it is very easy to be selective and no-nonsense.

You can have all the fun you want at the same time because you know what you are looking for and will not settle just because you feel like this is it and you will not get another chance with another guy ever again.

I’ll say it again, if one guy is NOT meeting your standards…

Move on…because there are many, many others right around the corner, never forget that and that’s the best part!

When you find yourself thinking too much and becoming frustrated, then you know that something is not quite right.

You have moved away from who you truly are, what you really want and are willing to put up with.

When you find that carefree, fun loving place again, that’s when it becomes easier to do what you know has to be done!

Much love

Alyssa K