Thursday, July 8, 2010

How to know if a guy is interested in you - 5 ways to tell


Stop wondering whether he is interested or not or how interested he is. Just observe...

Very often, we may be interested in a man but we are not quite sure if the feeling is mutual.

Sometimes men send mixed signals. They flirt with you, pay you compliments and are genuinely nice to you. But then when he isn't really taking any other steps to get to know you, you start to wonder if he is interested in you on a romantic level or if he is just being overly friendly.

The majority of the time we make it more complicated than it really is. The bottom line is if a guy is interested, he'll make it known and we will not have to guess and do any mental gymnastics to determine whether or not he is interested.

Unless he is extremely shy or has other personal issues, if a man is interested in you, he will let you know fairly quickly because he will want to make sure that he has your full attention. Don't you realize that men thrive on attention?

If you have toanalyse him or the situation, then chances are he is not interested and certainly not interested enough in you to make a move to call you or ask you out despite the signals he is sending.

Here are the top ways to know if a guy is interested:

1. He will call you - even if it is just to hear your voice and see how you are doing; how your day has been. He will call you because he is thinking about you.

2. He will ask you out. He wants to see you and spend more time with you to get to know you. If you agree to go out with him then he will know that you are interested in him as well.

3. He will schedule a second date with you as soon as he can. If you had a good time on the first date and he is genuinely interested in seeing you again, he will schedule another date with you sometimes just as the first date is ending.

Other times, it may take a few days but the point is he will make sure that he keeps himself penciled into your schedule. Why? Because he wants to spend time with you.

4. He will schedule a third, a fourth, a fifth date and so on. This is self explanatory and along the same lines as the Point 3.

5. He will keep his word. If he says that he will do something he will. If he says he will call you or meet you at a certain time, he will do as he says. If he has to cancel or reschedule a date, he will do so ahead of time and not stand you up.

If a man is doing the above, he is genuinely interested in you, likes you and likes being around you. The above actions are his way of showing you that. That is all you need to pay attention to: his actions.

Ignore the mixed signals. Just look at what he does and if he follows through. You'll find out what you want to know without having to say a word or expend unnecessary energy.

Exercise self control and you will have your answers!

Alyssa K

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