Friday, June 11, 2010

When a guy says that he is busy what does it really mean?

Have you ever had this happen to you? You have been going out this guy for a while and all of a sudden he says he is busy as in too busy to talk to you or to spend time with you. What does he really mean when he says this?

Let's give him the benefit of the doubt and say that he really is busy. Even so, if a guy is really interested in pursuing you, even if he is working 18 hours a day, 7 days a week, if he wants to see you and spend time with you, he will find a way to do so. Remember that men go after what they want and the women they want.

Any time a guy says this to you and does not make an effort to spend time with you, he is just not interested in you or attracted to you. It is his way of trying to avoid you and to keep you at a distance.

So, now that you know exactly what is going on, what do you do?

I'll tell you what you do NOT do. You do NOT call him; you do not text him and you do not bother him.

You do not try to elbow your way into his busy schedule.

You let him be. If he is that busy, give him all the time and space that he needs to focus on his busy schedule.

When you do this it allows him to see that you have no interest in trying to control him or his time. Remember that men appear to value their freedom above all else so let him have his freedom.

More than that, it allows you the time to see if this is the sort of man YOU want in your life. Remember that it is all about YOU. As long as you keep YOU as your focus it becomes easier.

He is clearly too busy for you so should you really be pining after him? We already know that if a man wants to be with you, he will move mountains to do so.

Why not start to enjoy YOUR freedom?

Why don't you get busy becoming more fabulous?

What if you were to get busy on that project you wanted to start?
What if you started on that project and it turned into a business?
What if that business started to do really well?
What if you gained financial freedom because of it?
What if you started to go out more with your friends?
What if you could now use this time to take weekend getaways?

You see where I am going with this? It really doesn't matter if he is too busy to see you!

You got things to do, people to see, places to go!

That's just yet another way you become THAT woman !

Ciao

Alyssa K

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