Hey Ladies,
I like this topic of how to keep your man wanting more. There are so many ways to keep yourself intriguing, alluring and mysterious to the man in your life.
That way you keep him wanting more and hungry for your attention and your interest and you have lots of fun in the process!
It's not enough to be physically attractive. We know that already!
There are plenty of gorgeous women but you will have realized that these women are not necessarily the women who are able to keep their guys interested and fired up all the time.
The problem these women have is that they are unable to able to create the kind of attraction in a man that makes him crave their attention and crave their company.
So how do you do that?
To keep your man wanting more of you, you have to become more interesting to put it simply. You have to be much more interesting to be around.
You have to become the woman who would stimulate your man's mind in a way that it has never been stimulated before.
To do this you have to find a topic (or a few topics) that is interesting to both of you - something that would allow you both to connect on a deeper level.
When he thinks of you, he must think "hmmm, I wonder what she would think about xyz"; " I want to know more about her" or "I wonder what her take on this would be."
Just think about the following to help you through this:
• What are you most passionate about?
• What are his interests? What is he passionate about?
• What can connect you two at a deeper level?
• What do you two talk about when you are together?
• Can you talk and laugh for hours about subjects that you are both passionate about?
Start with these questions to get your mind going and see what you come up with.
When you can stimulate your man's mind and stir up feelings deep within him that he did not even know he had is when you will have no problems keeping him inspired to be with you and only you!
And then, voila...
You are suddenly a whole lot closer to becoming the woman he just has to be around and talk to...
Then you have him right where YOU want him...
Friday, June 18, 2010
Friday, June 11, 2010
What should you do when a guy does not call?
Hello ladies,
What should you do if a guy does not call? This is a question I have got quite a few times.
We all have had the experience at one time or another when a man did not call when he said he would, or did not call after the first date or just stopped calling after a couple of months and then backed away until he disappeared altogether.
While sometimes it is true that he could have been in a terrible accident and in hospital, 99.99% of the time that is not the reason for a man not calling.
There is usually nothing else going on other than that he lost interest in you and does not know how to tell you or that he was never that interested in the first place.
When a guy you are really into does not call or stops calling, what you do NOT want to do is call him three times a day or worse yet, leave voice messages in which you ask him if he is okay and to please call you back. No...
So what should you do when a man does not call? What should you do when it appears as though a man has lost interest in you?
The answer is...absolutely nothing. That's exactly right. You make yourself just as scarce as he is.
Any calling, texting or emailing from your end to find out what is wrong and trying to convince him to call you back and to like you again will only result in him completely ignoring or being nasty to you beyond words.
You can NEVER convince a man to be interested in you again.
You just have to let it go; drop the ball. If he picks it up again, great!
If not, no love lost. Move on because he was obviously not that interested in you in the first place.
But maybe you want to understand reasons why a guy will not call a woman even if he likes her and how YOU can INSPIRE him to call you, then click here ! Now this is knowledge and insight that you can use to your advantage to get any man to WANT to call you!
As always, any crises or if you have any questions, feel free to email me at askalyssak@gmail.com !
Ciao
Alyssa K
What should you do if a guy does not call? This is a question I have got quite a few times.
We all have had the experience at one time or another when a man did not call when he said he would, or did not call after the first date or just stopped calling after a couple of months and then backed away until he disappeared altogether.
While sometimes it is true that he could have been in a terrible accident and in hospital, 99.99% of the time that is not the reason for a man not calling.
There is usually nothing else going on other than that he lost interest in you and does not know how to tell you or that he was never that interested in the first place.
When a guy you are really into does not call or stops calling, what you do NOT want to do is call him three times a day or worse yet, leave voice messages in which you ask him if he is okay and to please call you back. No...
So what should you do when a man does not call? What should you do when it appears as though a man has lost interest in you?
The answer is...absolutely nothing. That's exactly right. You make yourself just as scarce as he is.
Any calling, texting or emailing from your end to find out what is wrong and trying to convince him to call you back and to like you again will only result in him completely ignoring or being nasty to you beyond words.
You can NEVER convince a man to be interested in you again.
You just have to let it go; drop the ball. If he picks it up again, great!
If not, no love lost. Move on because he was obviously not that interested in you in the first place.
But maybe you want to understand reasons why a guy will not call a woman even if he likes her and how YOU can INSPIRE him to call you, then click here ! Now this is knowledge and insight that you can use to your advantage to get any man to WANT to call you!
As always, any crises or if you have any questions, feel free to email me at askalyssak@gmail.com !
Ciao
Alyssa K
When a guy says that he is busy what does it really mean?
Have you ever had this happen to you? You have been going out this guy for a while and all of a sudden he says he is busy as in too busy to talk to you or to spend time with you. What does he really mean when he says this?
Let's give him the benefit of the doubt and say that he really is busy. Even so, if a guy is really interested in pursuing you, even if he is working 18 hours a day, 7 days a week, if he wants to see you and spend time with you, he will find a way to do so. Remember that men go after what they want and the women they want.
Any time a guy says this to you and does not make an effort to spend time with you, he is just not interested in you or attracted to you. It is his way of trying to avoid you and to keep you at a distance.
So, now that you know exactly what is going on, what do you do?
I'll tell you what you do NOT do. You do NOT call him; you do not text him and you do not bother him.
You do not try to elbow your way into his busy schedule.
You let him be. If he is that busy, give him all the time and space that he needs to focus on his busy schedule.
When you do this it allows him to see that you have no interest in trying to control him or his time. Remember that men appear to value their freedom above all else so let him have his freedom.
More than that, it allows you the time to see if this is the sort of man YOU want in your life. Remember that it is all about YOU. As long as you keep YOU as your focus it becomes easier.
He is clearly too busy for you so should you really be pining after him? We already know that if a man wants to be with you, he will move mountains to do so.
Why not start to enjoy YOUR freedom?
Why don't you get busy becoming more fabulous?
What if you were to get busy on that project you wanted to start?
What if you started on that project and it turned into a business?
What if that business started to do really well?
What if you gained financial freedom because of it?
What if you started to go out more with your friends?
What if you could now use this time to take weekend getaways?
You see where I am going with this? It really doesn't matter if he is too busy to see you!
You got things to do, people to see, places to go!
That's just yet another way you become THAT woman !
Ciao
Alyssa K
Let's give him the benefit of the doubt and say that he really is busy. Even so, if a guy is really interested in pursuing you, even if he is working 18 hours a day, 7 days a week, if he wants to see you and spend time with you, he will find a way to do so. Remember that men go after what they want and the women they want.
Any time a guy says this to you and does not make an effort to spend time with you, he is just not interested in you or attracted to you. It is his way of trying to avoid you and to keep you at a distance.
So, now that you know exactly what is going on, what do you do?
I'll tell you what you do NOT do. You do NOT call him; you do not text him and you do not bother him.
You do not try to elbow your way into his busy schedule.
You let him be. If he is that busy, give him all the time and space that he needs to focus on his busy schedule.
When you do this it allows him to see that you have no interest in trying to control him or his time. Remember that men appear to value their freedom above all else so let him have his freedom.
More than that, it allows you the time to see if this is the sort of man YOU want in your life. Remember that it is all about YOU. As long as you keep YOU as your focus it becomes easier.
He is clearly too busy for you so should you really be pining after him? We already know that if a man wants to be with you, he will move mountains to do so.
Why not start to enjoy YOUR freedom?
Why don't you get busy becoming more fabulous?
What if you were to get busy on that project you wanted to start?
What if you started on that project and it turned into a business?
What if that business started to do really well?
What if you gained financial freedom because of it?
What if you started to go out more with your friends?
What if you could now use this time to take weekend getaways?
You see where I am going with this? It really doesn't matter if he is too busy to see you!
You got things to do, people to see, places to go!
That's just yet another way you become THAT woman !
Ciao
Alyssa K
How to keep your man wanting more - Building emotional attraction
Hey,
So we talked about building emotional attraction a few days ago.
But well you need some practical tips so here are a few. The reason that I like these and think that they work so well is that
1.They keep YOU in that positive, feel good, happy place because you worry a lot less about the outcome since you are so busy having fun
2.They give both you and the man in your life what you both want
3.You can enjoy an in the moment connection which does work out much better in the long run.
Again, the whole thing is fascinating but watching it at work in your life and in your interaction with the men in your life is even better. So here goes!
1. Play with him and have FUN. Make sure that you have lots of fun together. Always keep yourself and him smiling.
When YOU are smiling, he is smiling, everything is good and "la vie est belle" as they say. This tip may sound incredibly simplistic but it is really very powerful.
2. Give him as much space as you can. Enjoy the time you have when you are together. Have fun and live in the moment but do NOT crowd him.
Use this time away from him to replenish YOUR positive energy, come back refreshed and with a brand new aura that draws him in.
Pull back sometimes and allow him to miss you, to wonder about you and to come looking for you. Let him have fun with that sometimes. Enjoy the magic when he finds you.
3. Be interesting and unpredictable. Be provocative sometimes with what you say and do so that he never quite knows what you will say or do next.
That way he cannot help but think about you because you keep him guessing. You feel more confident, more daring like YOU are "the one". Like Neo...
4. Take things slowly to the point where he is not sure how into him you are. It does not matter how much fun you are having with him, do not try to rush ahead by forcing your feelings on him.
The key here is staying one step behind him and two steps ahead so that he is not quite sure what you want from him. This is how you keep him on his toes lol
Do you see how much fun you can have with this?
Building emotional attraction is as much fun for you as it is for him and in the end you both get what you want!
For more insight into this, you can download Man Mistake Eraser using this special link to get your bonus! Click on the link near the top of the page!
Ciao
Alyssa K
So we talked about building emotional attraction a few days ago.
But well you need some practical tips so here are a few. The reason that I like these and think that they work so well is that
1.They keep YOU in that positive, feel good, happy place because you worry a lot less about the outcome since you are so busy having fun
2.They give both you and the man in your life what you both want
3.You can enjoy an in the moment connection which does work out much better in the long run.
Again, the whole thing is fascinating but watching it at work in your life and in your interaction with the men in your life is even better. So here goes!
1. Play with him and have FUN. Make sure that you have lots of fun together. Always keep yourself and him smiling.
When YOU are smiling, he is smiling, everything is good and "la vie est belle" as they say. This tip may sound incredibly simplistic but it is really very powerful.
2. Give him as much space as you can. Enjoy the time you have when you are together. Have fun and live in the moment but do NOT crowd him.
Use this time away from him to replenish YOUR positive energy, come back refreshed and with a brand new aura that draws him in.
Pull back sometimes and allow him to miss you, to wonder about you and to come looking for you. Let him have fun with that sometimes. Enjoy the magic when he finds you.
3. Be interesting and unpredictable. Be provocative sometimes with what you say and do so that he never quite knows what you will say or do next.
That way he cannot help but think about you because you keep him guessing. You feel more confident, more daring like YOU are "the one". Like Neo...
4. Take things slowly to the point where he is not sure how into him you are. It does not matter how much fun you are having with him, do not try to rush ahead by forcing your feelings on him.
The key here is staying one step behind him and two steps ahead so that he is not quite sure what you want from him. This is how you keep him on his toes lol
Do you see how much fun you can have with this?
Building emotional attraction is as much fun for you as it is for him and in the end you both get what you want!
For more insight into this, you can download Man Mistake Eraser using this special link to get your bonus! Click on the link near the top of the page!
Ciao
Alyssa K
How to inspire a man to want to be around you
Hey Ladies,
How’s it going?
So I gave you ample time to reflect on the questions.
I’ll share my experience. I don’t know if you can relate but here is what I realized. It may be overly simplistic but…
When I used to feel uptight or uneasy about my interaction with my significant other in any way, things never seemed to go smoothly at all.
By uptight or uneasy I mean, thinking too much about what he said or did and what that would mean down the line.
And the thing is a whole range of negative thoughts would build one upon the other until I had worked myself up in a right tizzy for NO reason whatsoever.
All the while significant other is steadily shutting down because he can sense that something he does not want is going to happen, lol i.e me wanting to “talk”.
That "talk" I wanted to have was coming from that place of fear and things are not going well so that's what came out.
In my experience, the more you fixate on what you do not want to happen or on whatever your fears for your relationship or your interaction with men are, the more you will see exactly what you do NOT want play out just like a movie.
Except that this movie will play itself out a few days, weeks or months down the line like a self fulfilling prophecy.
That was then…
Now, I find that I do not think past any given moment. Granted this is not something that just happened overnight.
When you live in the moment and enjoy what is whilst remaining completely detached from any outcome whatsoever, your only objective being to enjoy the moment for what is, here’s what happens to YOU:
-You feel lighter, not weighed down by "what ifs" because frankly it doesn’t matter one way or the other
-You have positive energy flowing through you because you are happy in the moment
-You transmit that energy to all around you including the man in your life
-You inspire him to want to be around you more because you make him feel good when he’s around you
Then it becomes very easy to connect to him because he WANTS to connect to you and thus you have created emotional attraction.
Put that together with some sexy flirting tips and you are on your way to making him yours!
Ciao
Alyssa K
How’s it going?
So I gave you ample time to reflect on the questions.
I’ll share my experience. I don’t know if you can relate but here is what I realized. It may be overly simplistic but…
When I used to feel uptight or uneasy about my interaction with my significant other in any way, things never seemed to go smoothly at all.
By uptight or uneasy I mean, thinking too much about what he said or did and what that would mean down the line.
And the thing is a whole range of negative thoughts would build one upon the other until I had worked myself up in a right tizzy for NO reason whatsoever.
All the while significant other is steadily shutting down because he can sense that something he does not want is going to happen, lol i.e me wanting to “talk”.
That "talk" I wanted to have was coming from that place of fear and things are not going well so that's what came out.
In my experience, the more you fixate on what you do not want to happen or on whatever your fears for your relationship or your interaction with men are, the more you will see exactly what you do NOT want play out just like a movie.
Except that this movie will play itself out a few days, weeks or months down the line like a self fulfilling prophecy.
That was then…
Now, I find that I do not think past any given moment. Granted this is not something that just happened overnight.
When you live in the moment and enjoy what is whilst remaining completely detached from any outcome whatsoever, your only objective being to enjoy the moment for what is, here’s what happens to YOU:
-You feel lighter, not weighed down by "what ifs" because frankly it doesn’t matter one way or the other
-You have positive energy flowing through you because you are happy in the moment
-You transmit that energy to all around you including the man in your life
-You inspire him to want to be around you more because you make him feel good when he’s around you
Then it becomes very easy to connect to him because he WANTS to connect to you and thus you have created emotional attraction.
Put that together with some sexy flirting tips and you are on your way to making him yours!
Ciao
Alyssa K
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