Friday, April 23, 2010

Are You a Nice Girl? Become a "Bitch"

Hello ladies,

What’s going on? Just came back from a step class! I had a great time. There is nothing better than working up a sweat at the gym.

Oh by the way, the gym is a great place to try out some of the techniques, secrets and resources we’ll be talking about here! For those of you who have boyfriends, you’ll be using the techniques and resources to keep your guy hooked on you.

Okay on to today’s discussion!

Have you ever had a guy tell you you were too nice? I had a guy tell me that when I was about 16. To this day I remember that!

Didn’t think too much about it at the time but I realized he was an idiot so I stopped hanging out with him and talking to him. Suddenly I wasn’t so nice then but lo and behold, he started to blow up my phone trying to get me to talk to him!

So what does that mean when guys say that you are too nice? Well it means that it’s time to become a bitch, in simple terms.

Don’t get all up in arms. By bitch I mean that you need to become a “Babe In Total Control of Herself”.

What does being too nice mean?

It means that:

1.You are paying the guy you like too much attention
2.You put him on a pedestal
3.You are there for him when things are not going well
4.You are so understanding and he knows that he can call on you whenever he wants to talk
5.You are reliable and you stand by him
6.You try to help him solve problems
7.You call him to find out how he is doing
8.You invite him out to special events that you think he might enjoy
9.You listen to him and are attentive when he speaks
10.He knows all the above

Right so Step 1 of becoming a bitch is to focus on you. Start paying attention to yourself. Start putting yourself on a pedestal. Be there for YOU!

Realise that there is no need to put anyone, not even the guy that you think is the best thing since sliced bread, above you. Your guy or the guy you want is a human being just like you are. There is no need to put him on a pedestal. He doesn’t need anyone to worship him. He is not a god. Treat him like you would anyone else.

When you put him on a pedestal, all you are telling him is that you do not believe in yourself; that you think you are not worthy of him. When you do that, pretty soon he will lose all interest in you and go seek out someone else you puts herself first.

Why? Because he knows he has you exactly where he wants you. To him, you have just become boring as heck and suddenly he’ll start to display symptoms of ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder).

Learn how to become a bitch and you are on your way to meeting and keeping Mr. Right !

If you have always been a "nice girl" and you do not know how to become a bitch, click here for a tool you can start to use in the next few minutes!

Whenever you use any of the techniques you learn here, POST about your experience! Tell us how it worked for you!

Alyssa K.

No comments:

Post a Comment