Hey,
So we talked about building emotional attraction a few days ago.
But well you need some practical tips so here are a few. The reason that I like these and think that they work so well is that
1.They keep YOU in that positive, feel good, happy place because you worry a lot less about the outcome since you are so busy having fun
2.They give both you and the man in your life what you both want
3.You can enjoy an in the moment connection which does work out much better in the long run.
Again, the whole thing is fascinating but watching it at work in your life and in your interaction with the men in your life is even better. So here goes!
1. Play with him and have FUN. Make sure that you have lots of fun together. Always keep yourself and him smiling.
When YOU are smiling, he is smiling, everything is good and "la vie est belle" as they say. This tip may sound incredibly simplistic but it is really very powerful.
2. Give him as much space as you can. Enjoy the time you have when you are together. Have fun and live in the moment but do NOT crowd him.
Use this time away from him to replenish YOUR positive energy, come back refreshed and with a brand new aura that draws him in.
Pull back sometimes and allow him to miss you, to wonder about you and to come looking for you. Let him have fun with that sometimes. Enjoy the magic when he finds you.
3. Be interesting and unpredictable. Be provocative sometimes with what you say and do so that he never quite knows what you will say or do next.
That way he cannot help but think about you because you keep him guessing. You feel more confident, more daring like YOU are "the one". Like Neo...
4. Take things slowly to the point where he is not sure how into him you are. It does not matter how much fun you are having with him, do not try to rush ahead by forcing your feelings on him.
The key here is staying one step behind him and two steps ahead so that he is not quite sure what you want from him. This is how you keep him on his toes lol
Do you see how much fun you can have with this?
Building emotional attraction is as much fun for you as it is for him and in the end you both get what you want!
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Ciao
Alyssa K
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Friday, June 11, 2010
How to inspire a man to want to be around you
Hey Ladies,
How’s it going?
So I gave you ample time to reflect on the questions.
I’ll share my experience. I don’t know if you can relate but here is what I realized. It may be overly simplistic but…
When I used to feel uptight or uneasy about my interaction with my significant other in any way, things never seemed to go smoothly at all.
By uptight or uneasy I mean, thinking too much about what he said or did and what that would mean down the line.
And the thing is a whole range of negative thoughts would build one upon the other until I had worked myself up in a right tizzy for NO reason whatsoever.
All the while significant other is steadily shutting down because he can sense that something he does not want is going to happen, lol i.e me wanting to “talk”.
That "talk" I wanted to have was coming from that place of fear and things are not going well so that's what came out.
In my experience, the more you fixate on what you do not want to happen or on whatever your fears for your relationship or your interaction with men are, the more you will see exactly what you do NOT want play out just like a movie.
Except that this movie will play itself out a few days, weeks or months down the line like a self fulfilling prophecy.
That was then…
Now, I find that I do not think past any given moment. Granted this is not something that just happened overnight.
When you live in the moment and enjoy what is whilst remaining completely detached from any outcome whatsoever, your only objective being to enjoy the moment for what is, here’s what happens to YOU:
-You feel lighter, not weighed down by "what ifs" because frankly it doesn’t matter one way or the other
-You have positive energy flowing through you because you are happy in the moment
-You transmit that energy to all around you including the man in your life
-You inspire him to want to be around you more because you make him feel good when he’s around you
Then it becomes very easy to connect to him because he WANTS to connect to you and thus you have created emotional attraction.
Put that together with some sexy flirting tips and you are on your way to making him yours!
Ciao
Alyssa K
How’s it going?
So I gave you ample time to reflect on the questions.
I’ll share my experience. I don’t know if you can relate but here is what I realized. It may be overly simplistic but…
When I used to feel uptight or uneasy about my interaction with my significant other in any way, things never seemed to go smoothly at all.
By uptight or uneasy I mean, thinking too much about what he said or did and what that would mean down the line.
And the thing is a whole range of negative thoughts would build one upon the other until I had worked myself up in a right tizzy for NO reason whatsoever.
All the while significant other is steadily shutting down because he can sense that something he does not want is going to happen, lol i.e me wanting to “talk”.
That "talk" I wanted to have was coming from that place of fear and things are not going well so that's what came out.
In my experience, the more you fixate on what you do not want to happen or on whatever your fears for your relationship or your interaction with men are, the more you will see exactly what you do NOT want play out just like a movie.
Except that this movie will play itself out a few days, weeks or months down the line like a self fulfilling prophecy.
That was then…
Now, I find that I do not think past any given moment. Granted this is not something that just happened overnight.
When you live in the moment and enjoy what is whilst remaining completely detached from any outcome whatsoever, your only objective being to enjoy the moment for what is, here’s what happens to YOU:
-You feel lighter, not weighed down by "what ifs" because frankly it doesn’t matter one way or the other
-You have positive energy flowing through you because you are happy in the moment
-You transmit that energy to all around you including the man in your life
-You inspire him to want to be around you more because you make him feel good when he’s around you
Then it becomes very easy to connect to him because he WANTS to connect to you and thus you have created emotional attraction.
Put that together with some sexy flirting tips and you are on your way to making him yours!
Ciao
Alyssa K
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
How to keep your man wanting more- Build emotional attraction!
Hey Ladies,
Just a short word today about building emotional attraction!
Do NOT underestimate the power of emotional attraction! lol
When you meet a man and you two start to develop an interest in one another, it is because you are attracted to one another.
Attraction is what makes the whole thing work. Without attraction, there can be nothing.
How attracted a man is to you is what will make him stay around for the long haul and make him want to commit to you.
But what type of attraction are we really talking about here?
Of course there is physical attraction but physical attraction can only get you so far.
That is why we often hear stories from some of our friends who are really attractive but can never seem to be able to inspire a man to want to be around them for a long time.
They go out with a guy for a very short while before the chaos starts and the man then runs away for dear life.
So obviously then, inspiring a guy to want to be around you has absolutely nothing to do with mere physical attraction.
At the beginning it does help since men are visual creatures but to keep a man around you have to do a whole lot more than just look good.
The kind of attraction you need to build with your man is emotional attraction:
the type of attraction which is the beginning of true affection and which allows you to connect to a man in ways you never thought possible.
This attraction gives you a key to his heart.
This is the attraction that is the result of you making him feel very wanted and admired.
The kind of attraction that simply makes him feel good when talking to you, about you or being in your presence.
When he thinks about you his heart warms. When he sees you he is just blown away.
He longs to hear your voice again because you make him feel good each and every single time you talk to him.
When you are not with him, he wants to hear from you.
He thinks of you and a smile comes to his lips. You send him a text, he sees it’s from you and he smiles and opens it immediately.
This is the sort of attraction that will cause the man in your life to want to move mountains for you and want to be with you all the time.
Bear this in mind as your are flirting up a storm on your next date!
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
Just a short word today about building emotional attraction!
Do NOT underestimate the power of emotional attraction! lol
When you meet a man and you two start to develop an interest in one another, it is because you are attracted to one another.
Attraction is what makes the whole thing work. Without attraction, there can be nothing.
How attracted a man is to you is what will make him stay around for the long haul and make him want to commit to you.
But what type of attraction are we really talking about here?
Of course there is physical attraction but physical attraction can only get you so far.
That is why we often hear stories from some of our friends who are really attractive but can never seem to be able to inspire a man to want to be around them for a long time.
They go out with a guy for a very short while before the chaos starts and the man then runs away for dear life.
So obviously then, inspiring a guy to want to be around you has absolutely nothing to do with mere physical attraction.
At the beginning it does help since men are visual creatures but to keep a man around you have to do a whole lot more than just look good.
The kind of attraction you need to build with your man is emotional attraction:
the type of attraction which is the beginning of true affection and which allows you to connect to a man in ways you never thought possible.
This attraction gives you a key to his heart.
This is the attraction that is the result of you making him feel very wanted and admired.
The kind of attraction that simply makes him feel good when talking to you, about you or being in your presence.
When he thinks about you his heart warms. When he sees you he is just blown away.
He longs to hear your voice again because you make him feel good each and every single time you talk to him.
When you are not with him, he wants to hear from you.
He thinks of you and a smile comes to his lips. You send him a text, he sees it’s from you and he smiles and opens it immediately.
This is the sort of attraction that will cause the man in your life to want to move mountains for you and want to be with you all the time.
Bear this in mind as your are flirting up a storm on your next date!
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
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