Where can I go to meet guys -Part 2

Hey,


Ok so the World Cup is now over. Congratulations to Spain!

That however does not mean that you give up on going to sports bars or getting out of the house.

Listen do not even try it. I know there are many ladies who prefer to stay at home for a whole long list of reasons lol...

To become super confident, strut your stuff and practise all these tips and techniques, you have to get up and go out! The more you do it the easier it becomes.

There is still a whole lot of summer left. Whenever you hear a major game being advertised, make an effort to go. I have already explained why in an earlier post.

The objective here is just to increase your chances of meeting people.

But assuming that some of you are now sick to death of sports and sports bars for a while lol, (sorry but I had to make sure you did it) here are some other suggestions of where you can meet quality men this summer:

Workplace (although I would use with caution)

College/University

Church

Bookstore

Library

Supermarket

Beach

Park

Mall

Concerts

Get togethers’ at friends’ houses

Art galleries, exhibitions

Poetry readings/Open mics

Online

These are just places I could think of off the top of my head as I give some other ideas to try. Remember that we are doing things differently for summer 2010. No more of the same!

Do things that you like and follow your passions but step out of your comfort zone and try something you have never done before.

When you go out, remember the easy dating challenge where you smile, flirt and have fun?

Every time you go out, you do the same thing. You rinse and repeat lol

That's all you do and they will approach. Then depending on how many you meet and how the "meetings" progress, you get to practise being selective!

Can any of you think of any other places? Have any of you ever met a quality guy anywhere else? Any funny stories to share?

Alyssa K

Where can I go to meet guys?

Hey ladies,

Well summer is shaping up well. I have a few things I would like to say based on the emails I have been getting but one thing at a time...lol

A few ladies want to know where they can go to meet guys.

For right now let’s keep it simple. No reason to complicate life.

All I have to say is FIFA World Cup 2010!

For the next few weeks, go to a few Sports Bars, pubs, etc. and take in some of the games! You can go alone or you can go with a few friends.

Where ever there is a screen, beer and football, rest assured, there will be a large number of guys.

It’s a bit like landing a job. The higher the number of interviews you have, the more of a chance you have to land the job you really want.

Likewise, the higher the number of guys, the more of a chance you have to meet a cool guy.

Then when you are in the area, you get to scope out the prospects, smile, make eye contact, flirt but most importantly you are out there meeting people, (men and women, let’s face it) and the more people you meet the more of a chance you have to meet Mr. Right!

Yes, you can watch football at home but in order to meet people you have to get out!

In order to "catch a fish" (excuse the terminology but it's just an analogy), you have to cast your line or net where there are large quantities of fish. Okay analogy over...lol

The world is your oyster!

Get to it ladies! Summer 2010, time to shift perspective.

Ciao

Alyssa K