Hey Ladies,
How are you?
What do you have planned today? After work, I am going for a drink at a salsa bar. It’s a bar yes, but there is a really spacious dance floor. The music is cool. Not only salsa but house, R&B, hip hop, reggaeton, techno, you name it they play it. The ambiance is really good as well!
I expect you ladies have a whole weekend planned. You need to get up and go out in order to practise what you learn here lol.
Today we’ll be discussing what does a man want in a woman
You know how I like to use stories to illustrate my point so listen up…
Imagine a lady who has got it together, very pretty, she has a hobby which she is absolutely in love with and is lucky to have found a job doing the very thing she loves; she loves to talk and to be the centre of attention.
She thrives on attention and will do anything to get it but she is really cool so that can be overlooked. She is very outspoken generally and has an opinion on everything. She loves to go out and have fun. Well at least she used to…
She is seeing someone. It was a long distance relationship at first but she flew half way around the world to be with him. He is what people would describe as a cool, laid back guy, not a care in the world. The lady in question has become a completely different person when she is with her boyfriend.
-She no longer has an opinion on anything and agrees with whatever he says
-She will not go out unless it is with him or unless he is coming
-She refuses to make friends in the city to which she has relocated because she wants to spend all her time with him
-She calls him all sorts of pet names in public
-She does not go partying and wants to be home by 9pm so she has the whole night to spend with him
Result?
Her boyfriend has tried to break up with her more than once but she cries and he gives in and stays with her. He has cheated on her AND she knows about it but the behavior I described above has not changed in the least. He actually begs her to go out and she refuses because she prefers to spend all her time with him.
When I hear stories like this I want to give these ladies a good shake. It is obvious that she loves him and wants him to love her BUT she’s going about it in ways that end up pushing him away. She thinks they will get married.
That is the type of behavior you want to avoid at all costs with a man. Would you have expected the woman I described at first to act this way with a guy she is seeing? Would you think that she needed to?
There are 3 top traits a man looks for in woman. You cannot fake these traits. You either have them or you do not. If you do not have them, I am going to help you to learn them:
-Self-confidence. A woman who is confident and sure of herself is a turn-on to any man. She does not need his approval or for him to validate her worth. She knows who she is; comfortable in her own skin; makes her boundaries clear and can tell him to get lost if he is disrespectful in any way.
-Independence. A woman who can stand on her own two feet and does not accept hand-outs from anyone will command respect from a man. She does not need him to take her out to have dinner at a fancy restaurant.
She can go to the fancy restaurant when she wants to and treat him to a fancy dinner on occasion. This is a woman who has goals and dreams and works hard to achieve those goals and dreams. She will make it in life with or without him.
-Fun-loving. Men love a woman that they can play with. This is the woman that they can joke around with; tease; and have a witty war of words, a pillow fight or a game of charades with. These are the type of women who live in the moment and are not worried about what tomorrow may bring. They live for today.
Ladies, do not fall into the trap above. Men will sometimes bait you into this type of behavior. Clingy, insecure behaviour is NOT what a man wants in a woman!
If you are not sure about what a man wants in a woman, find out!
Learn how to exude that air about you that men love!
Learn about your “opponent” lol and what you need to do for YOU in order to become that dream woman that men want to meet and stay with!
Talk to you later ladies! Have fun this weekend!
Ciao bellas
Alyssa K
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Friday, April 30, 2010
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
What Does a Man Want In a Woman - What am I doing Wrong?
Hi Ladies,
How are you doing today? What do you have planned today? What are you going to do to make yourself happy? I am going to an aerobics class and then off to a party where there will be some great food since the host is an EXCELLENT cook! Yum, I cannot wait!
Onto today's discussion!
Have you ever said this to yourself, “It seems I can’t do anything right with men” or have you asked yourself, “what is wrong with me, why do I keep pushing guys away?”.
Many women have come to this realization when they say these things, “The more I try to please him, the more distant he seems to become.” “When I ask him what’s wrong, he says nothing.”
Believe me I have said these kind s of things a time or two…okay maybe more. I said this up until the point that I realized that I had to change something. That realization came about a year ago. I had to do something different to get the kind of companionship or relationship I really wanted.
There was absolutely no point doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. That would just be insane!
That is the point I want to get you to! Having a complete shift or change in perspective that will help you to get the kind of results YOU want.
The good news is that you have found this blog with all the tips and resources! You were actively looking for more information that will help you to become the kind of woman who gets it right each and every time with guys and you found it!
Seek and you will find… So the first part has been completed.
Now I just want you to promise me that you will put all that you learn here into practice to attract the kind of man who deserves a beautiful, sophisticated, independent, strong-spirited woman like you!
I would bet anything that you are a responsible lady, you work hard at a fulfilling and sometimes demanding job. It’s not that you don’t try to be kind, gracious and patient, but none of that seems to be getting you anywhere. The more you try to please your man or the guy you are dating, the more he skips AWAY from you. What is up with that you wonder.
Perhaps the men you date don’t seem to appreciate you or if you’re married it might seem as though your husband seems less interested in your marriage than he did not so long ago. The more you struggle to get him to understand you and what you want from the relationship, the more he pulls away and clams up. And of course the more frustrated and moody YOU become...vicious circle.
You’re open to advice, but where should you turn?
If you can relate to this and I know you can, there is great news. A really good book called, The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave will show you exactly the characteristics that men find irresistible in a woman. That is ideally what you are looking for right?
The good news is that these are things that ANY woman can apply. But there is one word of warning. These insights are powerful and might seem unconventional to a woman because they were designed by a man, to affect men. Please remember this rule: What works with women does not work with men.
If you feel frustrated in your relationship or while dating, there is good news. You don’t have to try harder, you simply need to know WHAT to try.
What you need is a blueprint of what men find captivating in a woman and most likely did in you, as well BEFORE he started to pull away. The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave is a bestselling e-book that shows women exactly how to attract AND keep a man.
What is more, you can download this book and start reading it in the next five minutes and start using the information right away without anyone being the wiser.
That is what I love about e-books. I don’t have to go to the book store and risk running into a friend or colleague at the cashier and having them peer over my shoulder or have to hide it under the cushions when people pop by. I can simply turn off the computer, lol. No one needs to know what challenges you are having with the man in your life!
But make sure you get all the help YOU need. This is about YOU. Let's transform you into the dream woman that the guy in you life loves to be around! Click here to start that transformation now.
Don't forget to let us all know how it works out for YOU!
ciao bellas
Alyssa K
How are you doing today? What do you have planned today? What are you going to do to make yourself happy? I am going to an aerobics class and then off to a party where there will be some great food since the host is an EXCELLENT cook! Yum, I cannot wait!
Onto today's discussion!
Have you ever said this to yourself, “It seems I can’t do anything right with men” or have you asked yourself, “what is wrong with me, why do I keep pushing guys away?”.
Many women have come to this realization when they say these things, “The more I try to please him, the more distant he seems to become.” “When I ask him what’s wrong, he says nothing.”
Believe me I have said these kind s of things a time or two…okay maybe more. I said this up until the point that I realized that I had to change something. That realization came about a year ago. I had to do something different to get the kind of companionship or relationship I really wanted.
There was absolutely no point doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. That would just be insane!
That is the point I want to get you to! Having a complete shift or change in perspective that will help you to get the kind of results YOU want.
The good news is that you have found this blog with all the tips and resources! You were actively looking for more information that will help you to become the kind of woman who gets it right each and every time with guys and you found it!
Seek and you will find… So the first part has been completed.
Now I just want you to promise me that you will put all that you learn here into practice to attract the kind of man who deserves a beautiful, sophisticated, independent, strong-spirited woman like you!
I would bet anything that you are a responsible lady, you work hard at a fulfilling and sometimes demanding job. It’s not that you don’t try to be kind, gracious and patient, but none of that seems to be getting you anywhere. The more you try to please your man or the guy you are dating, the more he skips AWAY from you. What is up with that you wonder.
Perhaps the men you date don’t seem to appreciate you or if you’re married it might seem as though your husband seems less interested in your marriage than he did not so long ago. The more you struggle to get him to understand you and what you want from the relationship, the more he pulls away and clams up. And of course the more frustrated and moody YOU become...vicious circle.
You’re open to advice, but where should you turn?
If you can relate to this and I know you can, there is great news. A really good book called, The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave will show you exactly the characteristics that men find irresistible in a woman. That is ideally what you are looking for right?
The good news is that these are things that ANY woman can apply. But there is one word of warning. These insights are powerful and might seem unconventional to a woman because they were designed by a man, to affect men. Please remember this rule: What works with women does not work with men.
If you feel frustrated in your relationship or while dating, there is good news. You don’t have to try harder, you simply need to know WHAT to try.
What you need is a blueprint of what men find captivating in a woman and most likely did in you, as well BEFORE he started to pull away. The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave is a bestselling e-book that shows women exactly how to attract AND keep a man.
What is more, you can download this book and start reading it in the next five minutes and start using the information right away without anyone being the wiser.
That is what I love about e-books. I don’t have to go to the book store and risk running into a friend or colleague at the cashier and having them peer over my shoulder or have to hide it under the cushions when people pop by. I can simply turn off the computer, lol. No one needs to know what challenges you are having with the man in your life!
But make sure you get all the help YOU need. This is about YOU. Let's transform you into the dream woman that the guy in you life loves to be around! Click here to start that transformation now.
Don't forget to let us all know how it works out for YOU!
ciao bellas
Alyssa K
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