SUMMER 2010
Your perspective is changing! A shift is taking place!
I am happy to hear that many of you are taking steps in the right direction.
I know that you have heard this a million times but I’ll say it again.
What is the definition of insanity? Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results…
At some point, you have to say enough is enough. If it’s not working, I need to change something I am doing and quick!
I have actually spoken to some of you who have had astounding results with Man Mistake Eraser. Way to go!
Yes, I told you when you download through the blog, I offer one on one advice if you need it, didn't I?.
You want to know how to regain his interest?
how to get him to realise your value, your worth?
how to get him to see that you mean business?
how to meet guys that are worth your time?
I sense your frustration...
When you realize that what you are doing is not working the way you’d like it to, you become frustrated but that frustration is your first step ladies…
Then you start to think,
This is nonsense.
How many times is this going to happen to me?
I’ve had enough
Well this is the last time
I deserve more and I want more
I’m pretty attractive. I look good and I feel good.
Heck, I'm beautiful.
I can go out right now and I’ll be sure to have the time of my life
This is my life. I’m going to live it to the fullest.
I am free and I’m going to enjoy my freedom
I want to have fun and I’m going to have fun with or without him.
I have one life and it all happens here and now :-)
I know what I want and I’m going to get it
And while, I’m at it, who knows, I might meet a cool, quality guy I get along really well with.
But by George, I am going to enjoy my freedom right now and have some fun!
When you start having these sorts of thoughts more often during the day, that, ladies, is when all sort of good things begin happening in you!
Once that shift starts in you, it can only be seen and FELT by others including the man in your life!
That is how you put all the wrong things right and get what you truly want!
Get what it is that you really want.
Combine the above with some proven strategies outlined in Man Mistake Eraser and watch what happens! Offer still stands when you download through my blog!
Love it!!! This is your summer ladies! Something has got to give!
Much love
Alyssa K
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Saturday, July 3, 2010
Thursday, May 20, 2010
How to NOT scare a guy off -Part 2
Hey Ladies,
How is it going?
I took a cool stroll today and just breathed in the fresh smell of late spring. It felt good to feel at one with nature. I’m definitely doing that again before the week is over.
We are still on the topic of how NOT to scare a guy off.
I’m talking here about guys whom you have just met and also about guys whom you have been dating for a while and really been in long term relationships with.
You all know me by now and know how I love to tell stories (true stories) to illustrate my point.
Today I was having a conversation with this guy. He’s 31. He said that he broke up with his girlfriend because she was talking about getting married all the time and pressuring him.
In the end he said he just could not deal with it anymore. He admitted that at the beginning he did say sure we’ll get married but…that was just to get her to stop talking about it.
He then said that women need to chill out and not talk about marriage and babies on the first date.
Let me add here that this is not the first guy I have heard say this and I am also talking about guys who have been in long term relationships so you really can’t say here that they are afraid of committing to one woman.
In the male mind, a woman who will talk about marriage and kids constantly is:
-More interested in getting married than in me
-Coming on too fast too soon and appears desperate to get a ring
-Applying too much pressure
It’s the same thing as well if you go out with a guy and on the first date you are talking marriage and kids. Give the guy a chance to get to know you first for YOU. Give yourself a chance to see if this is someone you want to be the father of your children.
I’ll share another story with you. There’s another couple I know who recently got together so they have been seeing each other for about six months now.
Already the lady is planning the wedding and has already voiced this to her boyfriend. She said that her boyfriend “agreed” with her and that he said, they would get married in two years.
It seems then that she has been bringing up the topic of marriage and he is agreeing just like the other guy I had a conversation with just to get her to back off. By saying two years, he gets her to shut up about it but buys himself some time to find a way out and find someone else...
In addition, she is constantly around him. It appears as though if she could spend every waking minute in his presence she would. Recently she has been complaining that her boyfriend has not been taking all of her calls and has been telling her he is busy...
Now if you have been following the blog I know you know all the mistakes that she has been making and that unless she does serious damage control and gets him to stop pulling away, the days for this relationship are numbered.
Ladies, please cool it with this. This is NOT the way to get any guy hooked on you. It will push him away.
What you want is for him to know that you are comfortable in your own skin, confident, alluring, seductive and no-nonsense. At this point then, he really can't help but to get hooked on you, now can he?
Click here to download your copy of Man Mistake Eraser (a review of this resource is available on the blog and have fun all the way through the course. At the end of it you'll draw any guy worth YOUR time closer.
The objective is to get him hooked on you, to cherish you and want to be with you only. Therefore you have to act in a way that inspires him to do that.
As always, any questions or is you would like any extra help in finding the resource that will meet your needs, email me at askalyssak@gmail.com
Those who have emailed me in the last 2 days I'm responding tonight!
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
How is it going?
I took a cool stroll today and just breathed in the fresh smell of late spring. It felt good to feel at one with nature. I’m definitely doing that again before the week is over.
We are still on the topic of how NOT to scare a guy off.
I’m talking here about guys whom you have just met and also about guys whom you have been dating for a while and really been in long term relationships with.
You all know me by now and know how I love to tell stories (true stories) to illustrate my point.
Today I was having a conversation with this guy. He’s 31. He said that he broke up with his girlfriend because she was talking about getting married all the time and pressuring him.
In the end he said he just could not deal with it anymore. He admitted that at the beginning he did say sure we’ll get married but…that was just to get her to stop talking about it.
He then said that women need to chill out and not talk about marriage and babies on the first date.
Let me add here that this is not the first guy I have heard say this and I am also talking about guys who have been in long term relationships so you really can’t say here that they are afraid of committing to one woman.
In the male mind, a woman who will talk about marriage and kids constantly is:
-More interested in getting married than in me
-Coming on too fast too soon and appears desperate to get a ring
-Applying too much pressure
It’s the same thing as well if you go out with a guy and on the first date you are talking marriage and kids. Give the guy a chance to get to know you first for YOU. Give yourself a chance to see if this is someone you want to be the father of your children.
I’ll share another story with you. There’s another couple I know who recently got together so they have been seeing each other for about six months now.
Already the lady is planning the wedding and has already voiced this to her boyfriend. She said that her boyfriend “agreed” with her and that he said, they would get married in two years.
It seems then that she has been bringing up the topic of marriage and he is agreeing just like the other guy I had a conversation with just to get her to back off. By saying two years, he gets her to shut up about it but buys himself some time to find a way out and find someone else...
In addition, she is constantly around him. It appears as though if she could spend every waking minute in his presence she would. Recently she has been complaining that her boyfriend has not been taking all of her calls and has been telling her he is busy...
Now if you have been following the blog I know you know all the mistakes that she has been making and that unless she does serious damage control and gets him to stop pulling away, the days for this relationship are numbered.
Ladies, please cool it with this. This is NOT the way to get any guy hooked on you. It will push him away.
What you want is for him to know that you are comfortable in your own skin, confident, alluring, seductive and no-nonsense. At this point then, he really can't help but to get hooked on you, now can he?
Click here to download your copy of Man Mistake Eraser (a review of this resource is available on the blog and have fun all the way through the course. At the end of it you'll draw any guy worth YOUR time closer.
The objective is to get him hooked on you, to cherish you and want to be with you only. Therefore you have to act in a way that inspires him to do that.
As always, any questions or is you would like any extra help in finding the resource that will meet your needs, email me at askalyssak@gmail.com
Those who have emailed me in the last 2 days I'm responding tonight!
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
Monday, May 17, 2010
Should I give him an ultimatum?
Hello Ladies,
How's it going?
Just wanted to address an issue real quick.
I have spoke to a few ladies who are saying that the guys in their life just will not commit. Either he will not come out and say whether they are officially a couple, dating exclusively or whatever or just will not take the next step to getting engaged and getting married.
The next question is, should I give him an ultimatum?
If I were in your shoes I would say no because direct ultimatums translate to pressure in the male mind and pressure will mean that your man will run in the next direction to try to get away from you and the pressure.
That said, I am not against giving him a nudge to see how HE measures up and if he is indeed the right person for YOU.
For him not to feel pressure from you and for you to get the answer and the result you want, again you cannot play nice. You have to think and act like a "bitch". We have talked about this before in other posts so you know exactly what I mean by this.
The best way to do that is by pulling away from him so that then HE starts to wonder if YOU want to commit to him.
That way you get your answer, if he steps up to the plate and you stop making the mistakes you have been making up to this point, you get exactly what you want.
If he does not step up to the plate, you would have wasted your time with him anyway so move on.
If you have even thought about giving him an ultimatum, then you have been making mistakes so far.
That’s fine you can become that woman that he just has to be with Man Mistake Eraser. When he sees that you are strutting your stuff, confident alluring and sexy because you have changed, he'll be giving you ultimatums! LOL
Whatever you do, do NOT give that man an ultimatum!
Just a reminder, whenever you download through the blog for this month I will be giving free one on one advice on the phone (via internet I mean) for any of you who need it.
Any other inquiries, askalyssak@gmail.com
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
How's it going?
Just wanted to address an issue real quick.
I have spoke to a few ladies who are saying that the guys in their life just will not commit. Either he will not come out and say whether they are officially a couple, dating exclusively or whatever or just will not take the next step to getting engaged and getting married.
The next question is, should I give him an ultimatum?
If I were in your shoes I would say no because direct ultimatums translate to pressure in the male mind and pressure will mean that your man will run in the next direction to try to get away from you and the pressure.
That said, I am not against giving him a nudge to see how HE measures up and if he is indeed the right person for YOU.
For him not to feel pressure from you and for you to get the answer and the result you want, again you cannot play nice. You have to think and act like a "bitch". We have talked about this before in other posts so you know exactly what I mean by this.
The best way to do that is by pulling away from him so that then HE starts to wonder if YOU want to commit to him.
That way you get your answer, if he steps up to the plate and you stop making the mistakes you have been making up to this point, you get exactly what you want.
If he does not step up to the plate, you would have wasted your time with him anyway so move on.
If you have even thought about giving him an ultimatum, then you have been making mistakes so far.
That’s fine you can become that woman that he just has to be with Man Mistake Eraser. When he sees that you are strutting your stuff, confident alluring and sexy because you have changed, he'll be giving you ultimatums! LOL
Whatever you do, do NOT give that man an ultimatum!
Just a reminder, whenever you download through the blog for this month I will be giving free one on one advice on the phone (via internet I mean) for any of you who need it.
Any other inquiries, askalyssak@gmail.com
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
Saturday, May 8, 2010
Should I ask him out? Mistake Number 2
Hello ladies
What’s up with you today?
I am chilling out and enjoying the cool weather.
Yes ladies, I am taking calls and giving FREE ONE ON ONE ADVICE for the entire month of May when you order any of the resources through my blog. I know that some of you have specific challenges you would like some support for that I may not yet have addressed so you can call me up and we’ll get to the bottom of it.
Should I ask him out? This is a question I got the other day.
Ladies, I have a feeling you know what I am going to say to this one.
NO…
NO WAY, no how…
The scenario is that the guy is calling and flirting and acting really sweet and attentive but is just not stepping up to the plate to ask the lady out.
In essence he it appears as though he is sending mixed signals. He seems interested but not quite and I admit it could be confusing if you OVER THINK it.
Ladies please stop over thinking the actions of men whom you have not yet dated or whom you have just met.
I’m just going to give an opinion on what I think:
When a guy is giving mixed signals but is not asking you out he is either:
Attached (married, engaged, has a girlfriend, seeing someone else, etc)
OR
Is having issues he needs to work out alone (professional, personal, etc.)
Translation: he is not emotionally available to date you or see you right now so leave it alone. DO NOT ask him out.
Another thing is that whatever the reason he is not asking you out now, it is still not your role to ask him out. If you ask him out,
-you are stepping into his role and there is nothing left for him to do
-you are pursuing him. It’s the first date so he should be asking you out first
-if he does say yes, you will never know how interested he is in you. Did he say yes not to hurt your feelings; because he had nothing else to do that day; to be polite; because he just wanted to hang out; you see what I am saying?
-you are already in an inferior position since you have just given him the option of saying no or dictating the tone of the relationship. It’s sort of like asking a guy where you stand in the relationship.
You have no control of the situation anymore… when you don’t have control of you or the situation, you are back to being a nice girl.
-You are not providing him with a challenge. If you are asking him out, you are making it too easy. He already knows you like him and want something more. He might as well just keep you as a back up now and see who else is out there.
-you are setting yourself up to over analyse some more and it just goes downhill from there.
Don’t do it ladies! I did it ONCE and it did NOT turn out well. I meet ladies sometimes who think there is nothing wrong with it.
Now if you have done this, you are probably making mistakes daily and don't even know it.
If you have done this already click here to erase those mistakes and to find out what to do next to redeem yourself! You’ll find the link to Man Mistake Eraser in the first few lines!
You might not realize that it is already going downhill because the signs are subtle at times. Even if you have made some of the worse mistakes, you can still keep his interest.
But take care with this one ladies…
You know where to find me in the event of a crisis...
Ciao bellas
Alyssa K
What’s up with you today?
I am chilling out and enjoying the cool weather.
Yes ladies, I am taking calls and giving FREE ONE ON ONE ADVICE for the entire month of May when you order any of the resources through my blog. I know that some of you have specific challenges you would like some support for that I may not yet have addressed so you can call me up and we’ll get to the bottom of it.
Should I ask him out? This is a question I got the other day.
Ladies, I have a feeling you know what I am going to say to this one.
NO…
NO WAY, no how…
The scenario is that the guy is calling and flirting and acting really sweet and attentive but is just not stepping up to the plate to ask the lady out.
In essence he it appears as though he is sending mixed signals. He seems interested but not quite and I admit it could be confusing if you OVER THINK it.
Ladies please stop over thinking the actions of men whom you have not yet dated or whom you have just met.
I’m just going to give an opinion on what I think:
When a guy is giving mixed signals but is not asking you out he is either:
Attached (married, engaged, has a girlfriend, seeing someone else, etc)
OR
Is having issues he needs to work out alone (professional, personal, etc.)
Translation: he is not emotionally available to date you or see you right now so leave it alone. DO NOT ask him out.
Another thing is that whatever the reason he is not asking you out now, it is still not your role to ask him out. If you ask him out,
-you are stepping into his role and there is nothing left for him to do
-you are pursuing him. It’s the first date so he should be asking you out first
-if he does say yes, you will never know how interested he is in you. Did he say yes not to hurt your feelings; because he had nothing else to do that day; to be polite; because he just wanted to hang out; you see what I am saying?
-you are already in an inferior position since you have just given him the option of saying no or dictating the tone of the relationship. It’s sort of like asking a guy where you stand in the relationship.
You have no control of the situation anymore… when you don’t have control of you or the situation, you are back to being a nice girl.
-You are not providing him with a challenge. If you are asking him out, you are making it too easy. He already knows you like him and want something more. He might as well just keep you as a back up now and see who else is out there.
-you are setting yourself up to over analyse some more and it just goes downhill from there.
Don’t do it ladies! I did it ONCE and it did NOT turn out well. I meet ladies sometimes who think there is nothing wrong with it.
Now if you have done this, you are probably making mistakes daily and don't even know it.
If you have done this already click here to erase those mistakes and to find out what to do next to redeem yourself! You’ll find the link to Man Mistake Eraser in the first few lines!
You might not realize that it is already going downhill because the signs are subtle at times. Even if you have made some of the worse mistakes, you can still keep his interest.
But take care with this one ladies…
You know where to find me in the event of a crisis...
Ciao bellas
Alyssa K
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