Hey,
How’s it is going?
I was thinking about my past relationships and interaction with guys I wanted to ask you ladies a few questions just to see if you could relate:
For the single ladies:
-Do you ever feel as though there are no normal, single, quality available men left?
-Do you feel as though you meet men who are either married, have a girlfriend or otherwise not relationship material?
-Do you feel as though you always meet men who are afraid of commitment or settling down?
-When you go out with guys and you are having a good time, do you start thinking “hmmm, I wonder if he is the one” or “I think this is it”.
For ladies in (long term) relationships:
-Do you find that you are anxious all the time, like you have fun with your guy but you really are not that relaxed around him?
-Do you wonder if he is happy with you?
-Do you find yourself wondering if your boyfriend really wants to be with you long term or marry you?
-Do you find yourself bringing up the topic of commitment or thinking about marriage all the time?
-Do you find yourself always thinking of what the future could be like with him – where you will live or how many children you have?
-Do you call your boyfriend all the time to check up on him?
-Do you want him to spend all his time with you?
- Do you and your guy end up bickering over frivolous things?
Just mull over these questions and see what answers you come up with…
I’ll be back with my own experiences.
I’d be really interested in hearing your answers to these questions too if any of you want to share because the answers will determine how you feel about YOU.
How you feel about YOU determines how your boyfriend or any potential guy in your life feels about YOU and how HOOKED on you he becomes.
It is also directly related to how much emotional attraction you can build with the guy in your life.
It’s an interesting phenomenon!
That’s your assignment for the next few days!
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
Monday, May 31, 2010
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
How to keep your man wanting more- Build emotional attraction!
Hey Ladies,
Just a short word today about building emotional attraction!
Do NOT underestimate the power of emotional attraction! lol
When you meet a man and you two start to develop an interest in one another, it is because you are attracted to one another.
Attraction is what makes the whole thing work. Without attraction, there can be nothing.
How attracted a man is to you is what will make him stay around for the long haul and make him want to commit to you.
But what type of attraction are we really talking about here?
Of course there is physical attraction but physical attraction can only get you so far.
That is why we often hear stories from some of our friends who are really attractive but can never seem to be able to inspire a man to want to be around them for a long time.
They go out with a guy for a very short while before the chaos starts and the man then runs away for dear life.
So obviously then, inspiring a guy to want to be around you has absolutely nothing to do with mere physical attraction.
At the beginning it does help since men are visual creatures but to keep a man around you have to do a whole lot more than just look good.
The kind of attraction you need to build with your man is emotional attraction:
the type of attraction which is the beginning of true affection and which allows you to connect to a man in ways you never thought possible.
This attraction gives you a key to his heart.
This is the attraction that is the result of you making him feel very wanted and admired.
The kind of attraction that simply makes him feel good when talking to you, about you or being in your presence.
When he thinks about you his heart warms. When he sees you he is just blown away.
He longs to hear your voice again because you make him feel good each and every single time you talk to him.
When you are not with him, he wants to hear from you.
He thinks of you and a smile comes to his lips. You send him a text, he sees it’s from you and he smiles and opens it immediately.
This is the sort of attraction that will cause the man in your life to want to move mountains for you and want to be with you all the time.
Bear this in mind as your are flirting up a storm on your next date!
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
Just a short word today about building emotional attraction!
Do NOT underestimate the power of emotional attraction! lol
When you meet a man and you two start to develop an interest in one another, it is because you are attracted to one another.
Attraction is what makes the whole thing work. Without attraction, there can be nothing.
How attracted a man is to you is what will make him stay around for the long haul and make him want to commit to you.
But what type of attraction are we really talking about here?
Of course there is physical attraction but physical attraction can only get you so far.
That is why we often hear stories from some of our friends who are really attractive but can never seem to be able to inspire a man to want to be around them for a long time.
They go out with a guy for a very short while before the chaos starts and the man then runs away for dear life.
So obviously then, inspiring a guy to want to be around you has absolutely nothing to do with mere physical attraction.
At the beginning it does help since men are visual creatures but to keep a man around you have to do a whole lot more than just look good.
The kind of attraction you need to build with your man is emotional attraction:
the type of attraction which is the beginning of true affection and which allows you to connect to a man in ways you never thought possible.
This attraction gives you a key to his heart.
This is the attraction that is the result of you making him feel very wanted and admired.
The kind of attraction that simply makes him feel good when talking to you, about you or being in your presence.
When he thinks about you his heart warms. When he sees you he is just blown away.
He longs to hear your voice again because you make him feel good each and every single time you talk to him.
When you are not with him, he wants to hear from you.
He thinks of you and a smile comes to his lips. You send him a text, he sees it’s from you and he smiles and opens it immediately.
This is the sort of attraction that will cause the man in your life to want to move mountains for you and want to be with you all the time.
Bear this in mind as your are flirting up a storm on your next date!
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
How to get a guy hooked on you - Focus on YOU!
Hey ladies,
Hope your relationships are shaping up like you are wanting them to.
If that is happening then it means that a shift is happening within YOU.
YOU changed something and so the dynamic of the relationship started to change.
I was thinking of something recently that I wanted to share which I think is important.
Here on the blog and in other places on the internet no doubt, the advice you will get is pretty clear.
It might appear as though there is a certain set of rules to follow when dealing with guys.
So there is specific advice on:
-becoming a "bitch"
-calling men
-asking guys out on dates
-how to get a guy's attention
-correcting mistakes you made so far
What I wanted to point out here though is that the above advice is just the start.
You have to start somewhere.
You see when you put any the advice into practice and you get your hands on any of the resources, that is the first step.
The resources give you the first insight into the mistakes you have been making and how to correct them and give you the first real feeling of control over your life and your love life.
From there you need to internalize the advice in a way that allows your own personality and femininity to shine through and so become the unique woman that wins his heart.
Even though you have been seeing results with the techniques you have read about here on the blog, started using the advice,
to get the “it” factor, you have to take that advice and work it into your life and allow it to mesh with who you are at the core.
Don’t forget that these resources are just there to help you and guide you to becoming the lady who inspires a man to want to be with her and only her.
Here’s what else I want you to do though.
Think about
-how would you describe yourself?
-What are you passionate about?
-Is there anything that makes your eyes light up when you do it or think about it?
-What is it about you that people really like?
-Can you honestly say that you are happy where you are right now in life?
-If not, is it because you see happiness as a destination?
-Are you comfortable with yourself?
-Are you at peace with yourself?
I’ll tell you why all this is important.
If you only focus on applying the techniques which will work no doubt,
you still have not dealt with the underlying issues that have a negative impact on your level of confidence when dealing with yourself and with others.
Remember that when you know who YOU are at the core, this is when the real magic starts!
When you are at peace and happy with YOURSELF, those are the vibes that you will automatically transmit to the guy in your life (and to other people around you by the way).
If a guy likes being in your presence BECAUSE he feels at peace and happy with you, what do you think is going to happen when you mix that with the advice and the tips you have been learning?
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
Hope your relationships are shaping up like you are wanting them to.
If that is happening then it means that a shift is happening within YOU.
YOU changed something and so the dynamic of the relationship started to change.
I was thinking of something recently that I wanted to share which I think is important.
Here on the blog and in other places on the internet no doubt, the advice you will get is pretty clear.
It might appear as though there is a certain set of rules to follow when dealing with guys.
So there is specific advice on:
-becoming a "bitch"
-calling men
-asking guys out on dates
-how to get a guy's attention
-correcting mistakes you made so far
What I wanted to point out here though is that the above advice is just the start.
You have to start somewhere.
You see when you put any the advice into practice and you get your hands on any of the resources, that is the first step.
The resources give you the first insight into the mistakes you have been making and how to correct them and give you the first real feeling of control over your life and your love life.
From there you need to internalize the advice in a way that allows your own personality and femininity to shine through and so become the unique woman that wins his heart.
Even though you have been seeing results with the techniques you have read about here on the blog, started using the advice,
to get the “it” factor, you have to take that advice and work it into your life and allow it to mesh with who you are at the core.
Don’t forget that these resources are just there to help you and guide you to becoming the lady who inspires a man to want to be with her and only her.
Here’s what else I want you to do though.
Think about
-how would you describe yourself?
-What are you passionate about?
-Is there anything that makes your eyes light up when you do it or think about it?
-What is it about you that people really like?
-Can you honestly say that you are happy where you are right now in life?
-If not, is it because you see happiness as a destination?
-Are you comfortable with yourself?
-Are you at peace with yourself?
I’ll tell you why all this is important.
If you only focus on applying the techniques which will work no doubt,
you still have not dealt with the underlying issues that have a negative impact on your level of confidence when dealing with yourself and with others.
Remember that when you know who YOU are at the core, this is when the real magic starts!
When you are at peace and happy with YOURSELF, those are the vibes that you will automatically transmit to the guy in your life (and to other people around you by the way).
If a guy likes being in your presence BECAUSE he feels at peace and happy with you, what do you think is going to happen when you mix that with the advice and the tips you have been learning?
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
Thursday, May 20, 2010
How to NOT scare a guy off -Part 2
Hey Ladies,
How is it going?
I took a cool stroll today and just breathed in the fresh smell of late spring. It felt good to feel at one with nature. I’m definitely doing that again before the week is over.
We are still on the topic of how NOT to scare a guy off.
I’m talking here about guys whom you have just met and also about guys whom you have been dating for a while and really been in long term relationships with.
You all know me by now and know how I love to tell stories (true stories) to illustrate my point.
Today I was having a conversation with this guy. He’s 31. He said that he broke up with his girlfriend because she was talking about getting married all the time and pressuring him.
In the end he said he just could not deal with it anymore. He admitted that at the beginning he did say sure we’ll get married but…that was just to get her to stop talking about it.
He then said that women need to chill out and not talk about marriage and babies on the first date.
Let me add here that this is not the first guy I have heard say this and I am also talking about guys who have been in long term relationships so you really can’t say here that they are afraid of committing to one woman.
In the male mind, a woman who will talk about marriage and kids constantly is:
-More interested in getting married than in me
-Coming on too fast too soon and appears desperate to get a ring
-Applying too much pressure
It’s the same thing as well if you go out with a guy and on the first date you are talking marriage and kids. Give the guy a chance to get to know you first for YOU. Give yourself a chance to see if this is someone you want to be the father of your children.
I’ll share another story with you. There’s another couple I know who recently got together so they have been seeing each other for about six months now.
Already the lady is planning the wedding and has already voiced this to her boyfriend. She said that her boyfriend “agreed” with her and that he said, they would get married in two years.
It seems then that she has been bringing up the topic of marriage and he is agreeing just like the other guy I had a conversation with just to get her to back off. By saying two years, he gets her to shut up about it but buys himself some time to find a way out and find someone else...
In addition, she is constantly around him. It appears as though if she could spend every waking minute in his presence she would. Recently she has been complaining that her boyfriend has not been taking all of her calls and has been telling her he is busy...
Now if you have been following the blog I know you know all the mistakes that she has been making and that unless she does serious damage control and gets him to stop pulling away, the days for this relationship are numbered.
Ladies, please cool it with this. This is NOT the way to get any guy hooked on you. It will push him away.
What you want is for him to know that you are comfortable in your own skin, confident, alluring, seductive and no-nonsense. At this point then, he really can't help but to get hooked on you, now can he?
Click here to download your copy of Man Mistake Eraser (a review of this resource is available on the blog and have fun all the way through the course. At the end of it you'll draw any guy worth YOUR time closer.
The objective is to get him hooked on you, to cherish you and want to be with you only. Therefore you have to act in a way that inspires him to do that.
As always, any questions or is you would like any extra help in finding the resource that will meet your needs, email me at askalyssak@gmail.com
Those who have emailed me in the last 2 days I'm responding tonight!
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
How is it going?
I took a cool stroll today and just breathed in the fresh smell of late spring. It felt good to feel at one with nature. I’m definitely doing that again before the week is over.
We are still on the topic of how NOT to scare a guy off.
I’m talking here about guys whom you have just met and also about guys whom you have been dating for a while and really been in long term relationships with.
You all know me by now and know how I love to tell stories (true stories) to illustrate my point.
Today I was having a conversation with this guy. He’s 31. He said that he broke up with his girlfriend because she was talking about getting married all the time and pressuring him.
In the end he said he just could not deal with it anymore. He admitted that at the beginning he did say sure we’ll get married but…that was just to get her to stop talking about it.
He then said that women need to chill out and not talk about marriage and babies on the first date.
Let me add here that this is not the first guy I have heard say this and I am also talking about guys who have been in long term relationships so you really can’t say here that they are afraid of committing to one woman.
In the male mind, a woman who will talk about marriage and kids constantly is:
-More interested in getting married than in me
-Coming on too fast too soon and appears desperate to get a ring
-Applying too much pressure
It’s the same thing as well if you go out with a guy and on the first date you are talking marriage and kids. Give the guy a chance to get to know you first for YOU. Give yourself a chance to see if this is someone you want to be the father of your children.
I’ll share another story with you. There’s another couple I know who recently got together so they have been seeing each other for about six months now.
Already the lady is planning the wedding and has already voiced this to her boyfriend. She said that her boyfriend “agreed” with her and that he said, they would get married in two years.
It seems then that she has been bringing up the topic of marriage and he is agreeing just like the other guy I had a conversation with just to get her to back off. By saying two years, he gets her to shut up about it but buys himself some time to find a way out and find someone else...
In addition, she is constantly around him. It appears as though if she could spend every waking minute in his presence she would. Recently she has been complaining that her boyfriend has not been taking all of her calls and has been telling her he is busy...
Now if you have been following the blog I know you know all the mistakes that she has been making and that unless she does serious damage control and gets him to stop pulling away, the days for this relationship are numbered.
Ladies, please cool it with this. This is NOT the way to get any guy hooked on you. It will push him away.
What you want is for him to know that you are comfortable in your own skin, confident, alluring, seductive and no-nonsense. At this point then, he really can't help but to get hooked on you, now can he?
Click here to download your copy of Man Mistake Eraser (a review of this resource is available on the blog and have fun all the way through the course. At the end of it you'll draw any guy worth YOUR time closer.
The objective is to get him hooked on you, to cherish you and want to be with you only. Therefore you have to act in a way that inspires him to do that.
As always, any questions or is you would like any extra help in finding the resource that will meet your needs, email me at askalyssak@gmail.com
Those who have emailed me in the last 2 days I'm responding tonight!
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
How to NOT scare a guy off
Hey ladies,
How much fun have you been having this week?
Lol
Today I wanted to talk to you about scaring guys off shortly after you meet them. I really do not know how they do it but I suspect we as women do it as well, but guys have a knack for sniffing out a woman who really wants to have a long term relationship or a woman who really wants to get married.
And guys will avoid such women like the plague. Maybe it has to do with the fact that desperation in any form is just unattractive.
If you tell a guy that you want to get married and have children as soon as possible or that you want a commitment, if he had ever thought of having a real relationship with you, those thoughts will go out of the window very quickly because now he’s thinking that you want to trap him.
To him, it’s like you were just waiting for someone, any guy to come along, pay you some attention and you would have been ready to walk down that aisle. There is just no way that he will ever be attracted enough to you to even think commitment. He has to feel as though he won you over.
It’s like when I went on this date with this guy. First date mind you…
First he called me in the morning to berate me for not calling him the day before. Apparently I said that I would have. I really do not remember saying that but anyway…
So I agreed to go out with him because he insisted. We met up and in the first five minutes he brought up the fact that I had not called the day before like I said I would have and in the next five minutes he was telling me that his intention was to make me his girlfriend.
To cut a long story short, he came on too fast too soon and it was very off-putting.
Think about how you would feel if you went out with a guy you just met and he was insistent and demanding about you calling him and said he wanted to marry you or make you his girlfriend. You would think that there was something wrong with him.
The thing is… some of us do this to guys all the time and expect them to want to be around us long term…
When you meet a man you really like, you have to inspire him to want to be around you and you do that by letting down your hair, enjoying life and not worrying about whether or not this is it or if he’ll call you.
Let it go, it is NOT that serious. I'm not trying to be funny here. Think about it...if this guy were not to feel the same way about you as you do about him, would you be any less of a person?
You do it by being confident and attractive and fun to be around. You do it by making him feel just as good as you do about life.
Now watch what happens with that same guy...
We’ll be on this for a while so stay tuned! You know where to find me lol.
Ciao ladies,
Alyssa K
How much fun have you been having this week?
Lol
Today I wanted to talk to you about scaring guys off shortly after you meet them. I really do not know how they do it but I suspect we as women do it as well, but guys have a knack for sniffing out a woman who really wants to have a long term relationship or a woman who really wants to get married.
And guys will avoid such women like the plague. Maybe it has to do with the fact that desperation in any form is just unattractive.
If you tell a guy that you want to get married and have children as soon as possible or that you want a commitment, if he had ever thought of having a real relationship with you, those thoughts will go out of the window very quickly because now he’s thinking that you want to trap him.
To him, it’s like you were just waiting for someone, any guy to come along, pay you some attention and you would have been ready to walk down that aisle. There is just no way that he will ever be attracted enough to you to even think commitment. He has to feel as though he won you over.
It’s like when I went on this date with this guy. First date mind you…
First he called me in the morning to berate me for not calling him the day before. Apparently I said that I would have. I really do not remember saying that but anyway…
So I agreed to go out with him because he insisted. We met up and in the first five minutes he brought up the fact that I had not called the day before like I said I would have and in the next five minutes he was telling me that his intention was to make me his girlfriend.
To cut a long story short, he came on too fast too soon and it was very off-putting.
Think about how you would feel if you went out with a guy you just met and he was insistent and demanding about you calling him and said he wanted to marry you or make you his girlfriend. You would think that there was something wrong with him.
The thing is… some of us do this to guys all the time and expect them to want to be around us long term…
When you meet a man you really like, you have to inspire him to want to be around you and you do that by letting down your hair, enjoying life and not worrying about whether or not this is it or if he’ll call you.
Let it go, it is NOT that serious. I'm not trying to be funny here. Think about it...if this guy were not to feel the same way about you as you do about him, would you be any less of a person?
You do it by being confident and attractive and fun to be around. You do it by making him feel just as good as you do about life.
Now watch what happens with that same guy...
We’ll be on this for a while so stay tuned! You know where to find me lol.
Ciao ladies,
Alyssa K
Monday, May 17, 2010
Should I give him an ultimatum?
Hello Ladies,
How's it going?
Just wanted to address an issue real quick.
I have spoke to a few ladies who are saying that the guys in their life just will not commit. Either he will not come out and say whether they are officially a couple, dating exclusively or whatever or just will not take the next step to getting engaged and getting married.
The next question is, should I give him an ultimatum?
If I were in your shoes I would say no because direct ultimatums translate to pressure in the male mind and pressure will mean that your man will run in the next direction to try to get away from you and the pressure.
That said, I am not against giving him a nudge to see how HE measures up and if he is indeed the right person for YOU.
For him not to feel pressure from you and for you to get the answer and the result you want, again you cannot play nice. You have to think and act like a "bitch". We have talked about this before in other posts so you know exactly what I mean by this.
The best way to do that is by pulling away from him so that then HE starts to wonder if YOU want to commit to him.
That way you get your answer, if he steps up to the plate and you stop making the mistakes you have been making up to this point, you get exactly what you want.
If he does not step up to the plate, you would have wasted your time with him anyway so move on.
If you have even thought about giving him an ultimatum, then you have been making mistakes so far.
That’s fine you can become that woman that he just has to be with Man Mistake Eraser. When he sees that you are strutting your stuff, confident alluring and sexy because you have changed, he'll be giving you ultimatums! LOL
Whatever you do, do NOT give that man an ultimatum!
Just a reminder, whenever you download through the blog for this month I will be giving free one on one advice on the phone (via internet I mean) for any of you who need it.
Any other inquiries, askalyssak@gmail.com
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
How's it going?
Just wanted to address an issue real quick.
I have spoke to a few ladies who are saying that the guys in their life just will not commit. Either he will not come out and say whether they are officially a couple, dating exclusively or whatever or just will not take the next step to getting engaged and getting married.
The next question is, should I give him an ultimatum?
If I were in your shoes I would say no because direct ultimatums translate to pressure in the male mind and pressure will mean that your man will run in the next direction to try to get away from you and the pressure.
That said, I am not against giving him a nudge to see how HE measures up and if he is indeed the right person for YOU.
For him not to feel pressure from you and for you to get the answer and the result you want, again you cannot play nice. You have to think and act like a "bitch". We have talked about this before in other posts so you know exactly what I mean by this.
The best way to do that is by pulling away from him so that then HE starts to wonder if YOU want to commit to him.
That way you get your answer, if he steps up to the plate and you stop making the mistakes you have been making up to this point, you get exactly what you want.
If he does not step up to the plate, you would have wasted your time with him anyway so move on.
If you have even thought about giving him an ultimatum, then you have been making mistakes so far.
That’s fine you can become that woman that he just has to be with Man Mistake Eraser. When he sees that you are strutting your stuff, confident alluring and sexy because you have changed, he'll be giving you ultimatums! LOL
Whatever you do, do NOT give that man an ultimatum!
Just a reminder, whenever you download through the blog for this month I will be giving free one on one advice on the phone (via internet I mean) for any of you who need it.
Any other inquiries, askalyssak@gmail.com
Ciao ladies
Alyssa K
Saturday, May 15, 2010
How Can I Be Less Emotional?
Hello Ladies,
Ready and rearing to go into another week! It was nice to talk to you, hear your stories and get your feedback!
Today we’ll be talking about throwing what I call temper tantrums which is another of the mistakes that we sometimes make as women.
I really do not want to generalize but sometimes we have to admit that we get very emotional with the guys we are dating or are in relationships with.
We become really emotional over things that we do not necessarily need to get emotional over.
We’ll get upset if he doesn’t call when he said he was going to or if he doesn’t call enough
We’ll get upset if he goes out with the boys, stays out late and doesn’t call
We’ll get upset if he just is not doing something right
We’ll get upset if he doesn’t make it clear he wants a relationship with us in like a month or if he does not propose to us within a particular time frame and start issuing ultimatums complete with tears etc….
Okay we feel what we feel but ladies please realise that the only things we succeed in doing when we go on an emotional roller coaster when the men in our lives are:
•To cause them to shut down
•To cause them to zone out
•To cause them to pull away
•To cause them to try to find the nearest exit as quickly as possible
If there is one thing that you have to do here is to get your emotions under control. In order to do this you have to get control of yourself.
When you emotions are out of control, you are speaking from a place of fear and negativity and you project those negative emotions onto the man in your life.
All he sees at that point is that you are someone he has to get away from as quickly as possible. You are all wrapped up in negativity now and causing him pain and frustration and that is what he will try to avoid.
End result, the more emotional you become, the more detached he becomes.
Whenever the man in your life is displaying behavior that you are not particularly pleased with, this is not the time for you pander to him and be nice and show him how much he means to you by losing control.
This is when you have to become a bitch and be in total control of yourself, your emotions and the situation.
When you act this way, the man in your life will either shape up or ship out. Either way he will respect you. When you have his respect, he’ll come closer without you having to say a word in an attempt to convince him, beg, plead or throw a temper tantrum.
Now that is exactly what you want.
Ladies, get control over your emotions! To find out how to do that click here !
Ciao bellas
Alyssa K
Ready and rearing to go into another week! It was nice to talk to you, hear your stories and get your feedback!
Today we’ll be talking about throwing what I call temper tantrums which is another of the mistakes that we sometimes make as women.
I really do not want to generalize but sometimes we have to admit that we get very emotional with the guys we are dating or are in relationships with.
We become really emotional over things that we do not necessarily need to get emotional over.
We’ll get upset if he doesn’t call when he said he was going to or if he doesn’t call enough
We’ll get upset if he goes out with the boys, stays out late and doesn’t call
We’ll get upset if he just is not doing something right
We’ll get upset if he doesn’t make it clear he wants a relationship with us in like a month or if he does not propose to us within a particular time frame and start issuing ultimatums complete with tears etc….
Okay we feel what we feel but ladies please realise that the only things we succeed in doing when we go on an emotional roller coaster when the men in our lives are:
•To cause them to shut down
•To cause them to zone out
•To cause them to pull away
•To cause them to try to find the nearest exit as quickly as possible
If there is one thing that you have to do here is to get your emotions under control. In order to do this you have to get control of yourself.
When you emotions are out of control, you are speaking from a place of fear and negativity and you project those negative emotions onto the man in your life.
All he sees at that point is that you are someone he has to get away from as quickly as possible. You are all wrapped up in negativity now and causing him pain and frustration and that is what he will try to avoid.
End result, the more emotional you become, the more detached he becomes.
Whenever the man in your life is displaying behavior that you are not particularly pleased with, this is not the time for you pander to him and be nice and show him how much he means to you by losing control.
This is when you have to become a bitch and be in total control of yourself, your emotions and the situation.
When you act this way, the man in your life will either shape up or ship out. Either way he will respect you. When you have his respect, he’ll come closer without you having to say a word in an attempt to convince him, beg, plead or throw a temper tantrum.
Now that is exactly what you want.
Ladies, get control over your emotions! To find out how to do that click here !
Ciao bellas
Alyssa K
Saturday, May 8, 2010
Should I ask him out? Mistake Number 2
Hello ladies
What’s up with you today?
I am chilling out and enjoying the cool weather.
Yes ladies, I am taking calls and giving FREE ONE ON ONE ADVICE for the entire month of May when you order any of the resources through my blog. I know that some of you have specific challenges you would like some support for that I may not yet have addressed so you can call me up and we’ll get to the bottom of it.
Should I ask him out? This is a question I got the other day.
Ladies, I have a feeling you know what I am going to say to this one.
NO…
NO WAY, no how…
The scenario is that the guy is calling and flirting and acting really sweet and attentive but is just not stepping up to the plate to ask the lady out.
In essence he it appears as though he is sending mixed signals. He seems interested but not quite and I admit it could be confusing if you OVER THINK it.
Ladies please stop over thinking the actions of men whom you have not yet dated or whom you have just met.
I’m just going to give an opinion on what I think:
When a guy is giving mixed signals but is not asking you out he is either:
Attached (married, engaged, has a girlfriend, seeing someone else, etc)
OR
Is having issues he needs to work out alone (professional, personal, etc.)
Translation: he is not emotionally available to date you or see you right now so leave it alone. DO NOT ask him out.
Another thing is that whatever the reason he is not asking you out now, it is still not your role to ask him out. If you ask him out,
-you are stepping into his role and there is nothing left for him to do
-you are pursuing him. It’s the first date so he should be asking you out first
-if he does say yes, you will never know how interested he is in you. Did he say yes not to hurt your feelings; because he had nothing else to do that day; to be polite; because he just wanted to hang out; you see what I am saying?
-you are already in an inferior position since you have just given him the option of saying no or dictating the tone of the relationship. It’s sort of like asking a guy where you stand in the relationship.
You have no control of the situation anymore… when you don’t have control of you or the situation, you are back to being a nice girl.
-You are not providing him with a challenge. If you are asking him out, you are making it too easy. He already knows you like him and want something more. He might as well just keep you as a back up now and see who else is out there.
-you are setting yourself up to over analyse some more and it just goes downhill from there.
Don’t do it ladies! I did it ONCE and it did NOT turn out well. I meet ladies sometimes who think there is nothing wrong with it.
Now if you have done this, you are probably making mistakes daily and don't even know it.
If you have done this already click here to erase those mistakes and to find out what to do next to redeem yourself! You’ll find the link to Man Mistake Eraser in the first few lines!
You might not realize that it is already going downhill because the signs are subtle at times. Even if you have made some of the worse mistakes, you can still keep his interest.
But take care with this one ladies…
You know where to find me in the event of a crisis...
Ciao bellas
Alyssa K
What’s up with you today?
I am chilling out and enjoying the cool weather.
Yes ladies, I am taking calls and giving FREE ONE ON ONE ADVICE for the entire month of May when you order any of the resources through my blog. I know that some of you have specific challenges you would like some support for that I may not yet have addressed so you can call me up and we’ll get to the bottom of it.
Should I ask him out? This is a question I got the other day.
Ladies, I have a feeling you know what I am going to say to this one.
NO…
NO WAY, no how…
The scenario is that the guy is calling and flirting and acting really sweet and attentive but is just not stepping up to the plate to ask the lady out.
In essence he it appears as though he is sending mixed signals. He seems interested but not quite and I admit it could be confusing if you OVER THINK it.
Ladies please stop over thinking the actions of men whom you have not yet dated or whom you have just met.
I’m just going to give an opinion on what I think:
When a guy is giving mixed signals but is not asking you out he is either:
Attached (married, engaged, has a girlfriend, seeing someone else, etc)
OR
Is having issues he needs to work out alone (professional, personal, etc.)
Translation: he is not emotionally available to date you or see you right now so leave it alone. DO NOT ask him out.
Another thing is that whatever the reason he is not asking you out now, it is still not your role to ask him out. If you ask him out,
-you are stepping into his role and there is nothing left for him to do
-you are pursuing him. It’s the first date so he should be asking you out first
-if he does say yes, you will never know how interested he is in you. Did he say yes not to hurt your feelings; because he had nothing else to do that day; to be polite; because he just wanted to hang out; you see what I am saying?
-you are already in an inferior position since you have just given him the option of saying no or dictating the tone of the relationship. It’s sort of like asking a guy where you stand in the relationship.
You have no control of the situation anymore… when you don’t have control of you or the situation, you are back to being a nice girl.
-You are not providing him with a challenge. If you are asking him out, you are making it too easy. He already knows you like him and want something more. He might as well just keep you as a back up now and see who else is out there.
-you are setting yourself up to over analyse some more and it just goes downhill from there.
Don’t do it ladies! I did it ONCE and it did NOT turn out well. I meet ladies sometimes who think there is nothing wrong with it.
Now if you have done this, you are probably making mistakes daily and don't even know it.
If you have done this already click here to erase those mistakes and to find out what to do next to redeem yourself! You’ll find the link to Man Mistake Eraser in the first few lines!
You might not realize that it is already going downhill because the signs are subtle at times. Even if you have made some of the worse mistakes, you can still keep his interest.
But take care with this one ladies…
You know where to find me in the event of a crisis...
Ciao bellas
Alyssa K
Friday, May 7, 2010
Should I call him first? Mistake Number 1
Hello ladies,
How are you all lovely ladies doing today? I know that many of you are feeling a lot better now with the guys in your life. That is EXCELLENT!
Keep doing what you are doing.
You know what my next question is going to be since it’s a Friday! What do you have planned for this weekend? And if you have nothing planned as yet to do for YOU then spend the rest of today thinking about a plan for tonight and tomorrow. I’m serious ladies…
For those of you with dates this weekend with a new guy or your long term boyfriend or husband, have fun, kick back, enjoy yourself and let YOU shine through. At every step you want to be doing YOU but drawing him in.
It’s a perfect weekend all round to try out any new techniques!
We’ve been talking about mistakes we ladies make with guys and I had to talk to you about this one because this is one that can be easily overlooked.
Now I know that I may get a lot of resistance about this one but I am prepared to take it because I have the proof that this one does not bring pleasant results at all.
I am talking about calling a man first . I am speaking from past personal experience and from the stories I have heard from my girlfriends. IT DOES NOT TURN OUT WELL.
Ladies, if you go out this weekend and you meet a cool guy and you two exchange numbers, please do NOT call him. I do not care if it takes him 50 years to call you, do NOT call him.
It might seem silly and you may think, what’s the harm? It’s one stupid phone call.
Here’s the harm…
Most men do NOT view women calling first favourably…but they will almost NEVER tell you that. Add calling him first to all the other mistakes you will make in future with him, you are doomed with this man BEFORE you start.
Guaranteed that if you call a man first, you WILL make other mistakes with him.
Ladies, this is tough love I am giving here.
•It is NOT your role to call him first period. Let him be the man and step up to the plate and call you if he is interested in you. If he is not interested in you, some other man who is perhaps 100 times more suited to you will be interested in you and will call you. Whatever happens you have to let men be men and pursue who they are interested in. Trust me when I say that if you made a good first impression, he WILL call you. You would have fulfilled your role by drawing him in enough to you to call you and that is ALL you need to do.
•The moment you start wondering why he hasn’t called you and looking at the phone, waiting around by the phone and then God forbid, picking up the phone 50 times and saying “should I call him?”, “I am going to call”, “no I can’t call”, “That’s it, I’m calling” and then you CALL, you have already lost control of you and the situation. Just walk him to the door now and wave bye bye…
•You are already in that place of fear and insecurity because you now have no clue whether he ever planned on calling you or if he is really into you. There is no way you can be confident and appear attractive enough to him to have him crave being around you, at least not for the long term. All your uncertainty and doubt will go straight through the phone and be felt by him. You have already LOST, bella!
Ladies, I know this is causing problems for many of you. If you have always had problems with this, click here and solve this once and for all and to learn how to stop making all the other mistakes that stop you from becoming the woman that inspires a man to crave being around her. You now know how to keep his interest.
It is when a man wants more than anything to be around you long term, that you are officially one of the women with the SECRET! You will officially be one of the dream women.
IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT
For those of you who order any of the resources you find on my blog between now and May 31st, I will be offering free one on one advice, as in on the PHONE. Yes I actually want to talk to you ladies and hear from you :)!
Ciao bellas
Alyssa K
How are you all lovely ladies doing today? I know that many of you are feeling a lot better now with the guys in your life. That is EXCELLENT!
Keep doing what you are doing.
You know what my next question is going to be since it’s a Friday! What do you have planned for this weekend? And if you have nothing planned as yet to do for YOU then spend the rest of today thinking about a plan for tonight and tomorrow. I’m serious ladies…
For those of you with dates this weekend with a new guy or your long term boyfriend or husband, have fun, kick back, enjoy yourself and let YOU shine through. At every step you want to be doing YOU but drawing him in.
It’s a perfect weekend all round to try out any new techniques!
We’ve been talking about mistakes we ladies make with guys and I had to talk to you about this one because this is one that can be easily overlooked.
Now I know that I may get a lot of resistance about this one but I am prepared to take it because I have the proof that this one does not bring pleasant results at all.
I am talking about calling a man first . I am speaking from past personal experience and from the stories I have heard from my girlfriends. IT DOES NOT TURN OUT WELL.
Ladies, if you go out this weekend and you meet a cool guy and you two exchange numbers, please do NOT call him. I do not care if it takes him 50 years to call you, do NOT call him.
It might seem silly and you may think, what’s the harm? It’s one stupid phone call.
Here’s the harm…
Most men do NOT view women calling first favourably…but they will almost NEVER tell you that. Add calling him first to all the other mistakes you will make in future with him, you are doomed with this man BEFORE you start.
Guaranteed that if you call a man first, you WILL make other mistakes with him.
Ladies, this is tough love I am giving here.
•It is NOT your role to call him first period. Let him be the man and step up to the plate and call you if he is interested in you. If he is not interested in you, some other man who is perhaps 100 times more suited to you will be interested in you and will call you. Whatever happens you have to let men be men and pursue who they are interested in. Trust me when I say that if you made a good first impression, he WILL call you. You would have fulfilled your role by drawing him in enough to you to call you and that is ALL you need to do.
•The moment you start wondering why he hasn’t called you and looking at the phone, waiting around by the phone and then God forbid, picking up the phone 50 times and saying “should I call him?”, “I am going to call”, “no I can’t call”, “That’s it, I’m calling” and then you CALL, you have already lost control of you and the situation. Just walk him to the door now and wave bye bye…
•You are already in that place of fear and insecurity because you now have no clue whether he ever planned on calling you or if he is really into you. There is no way you can be confident and appear attractive enough to him to have him crave being around you, at least not for the long term. All your uncertainty and doubt will go straight through the phone and be felt by him. You have already LOST, bella!
Ladies, I know this is causing problems for many of you. If you have always had problems with this, click here and solve this once and for all and to learn how to stop making all the other mistakes that stop you from becoming the woman that inspires a man to crave being around her. You now know how to keep his interest.
It is when a man wants more than anything to be around you long term, that you are officially one of the women with the SECRET! You will officially be one of the dream women.
IMPORTANT ANNOUNCEMENT
For those of you who order any of the resources you find on my blog between now and May 31st, I will be offering free one on one advice, as in on the PHONE. Yes I actually want to talk to you ladies and hear from you :)!
Ciao bellas
Alyssa K
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
How To Regain a Man's Interest - Lesson From a Feather!
Hello Ladies,
Today was cold and rainy and not one of those days when I want to be out and about. I love it when it rains though! Any excuse to curl up in bed. Today was way too cold for a day in May though but it was raining so I am not complaining.
In yesterday's REVIEW, we mentioned some of the mistakes that you may be making right now or have made in the past that have caused the men in your life to want to jump ship...
-Calling too often and essentially chasing him and thus chasing him AWAY
-Hinting about commitment, marriage and children too soon as in bringing it up before him
-Asking where the relationship is going
-Not giving him enough space and allowing him to enjoy his freedom
-Focusing on him and smothering him
-Giving him too much attention
Okay so just imagine that with any or all of these actions above, you are vigorously and desperately trying to catch that feather (the man in your life whose interest seems to be cooling off) that is falling from the sky.
The more you struggle to clutch at and catch and hang onto this feather, the more you push the feather away and the more frustrated you become and the more mistakes you end up making.
But ladies, what happens if you just relax, chill out, kick back and open up your hand? The feather will land in your hand effortlessly!
So what you want to do is to find ways of relaxing and opening your hand and letting the man you want come to you. That is how you regain his interest and KEEP his interest.
The way you do this is by focusing on YOU and YOUR feelings, not on the man.
•You open yourself up to yourself,
•You are feeling good
•The better you feel the more RELAXED you become
•The more RELAXED you become, the more POSITIVE VIBES you emit
•The more POSITIVE the VIBES, the more CONFIDENT you feel
•The more CONFIDENT you feel, the LESS ENERGY you expend
•The LESS ENERGY you expend, the MORE the man in your life will drift TOWARDS YOU since you are not pushing him away by your efforts to hang onto HIM.
He is drifting towards you because you have now become more ATTRACTIVE to him and are using your feminine energy to draw him in.
This is what you want ladies, even if you have made all the mistakes above, you can correct them and draw him back in.
Click here to get your spiraled bound copy of Man Mistake Eraser and to find out how to correct the mistakes above and draw him back in. IMPORTANT, so that you find the link easily, it's near the top of the page. Don’t forget to download your 2 bonuses so you can start reading right away! How To Play Hard to Get and How to Write a Successful Online Profile.
Ladies, I am really happy to hear of the upturns in your relationships. I really enjoy your emails. I smile when I read of your results! I told you!!!!!!
Keep reading and practising!
Ciao bellas
Alyssa K
Today was cold and rainy and not one of those days when I want to be out and about. I love it when it rains though! Any excuse to curl up in bed. Today was way too cold for a day in May though but it was raining so I am not complaining.
In yesterday's REVIEW, we mentioned some of the mistakes that you may be making right now or have made in the past that have caused the men in your life to want to jump ship...
-Calling too often and essentially chasing him and thus chasing him AWAY
-Hinting about commitment, marriage and children too soon as in bringing it up before him
-Asking where the relationship is going
-Not giving him enough space and allowing him to enjoy his freedom
-Focusing on him and smothering him
-Giving him too much attention
Okay so just imagine that with any or all of these actions above, you are vigorously and desperately trying to catch that feather (the man in your life whose interest seems to be cooling off) that is falling from the sky.
The more you struggle to clutch at and catch and hang onto this feather, the more you push the feather away and the more frustrated you become and the more mistakes you end up making.
But ladies, what happens if you just relax, chill out, kick back and open up your hand? The feather will land in your hand effortlessly!
So what you want to do is to find ways of relaxing and opening your hand and letting the man you want come to you. That is how you regain his interest and KEEP his interest.
The way you do this is by focusing on YOU and YOUR feelings, not on the man.
•You open yourself up to yourself,
•You are feeling good
•The better you feel the more RELAXED you become
•The more RELAXED you become, the more POSITIVE VIBES you emit
•The more POSITIVE the VIBES, the more CONFIDENT you feel
•The more CONFIDENT you feel, the LESS ENERGY you expend
•The LESS ENERGY you expend, the MORE the man in your life will drift TOWARDS YOU since you are not pushing him away by your efforts to hang onto HIM.
He is drifting towards you because you have now become more ATTRACTIVE to him and are using your feminine energy to draw him in.
This is what you want ladies, even if you have made all the mistakes above, you can correct them and draw him back in.
Click here to get your spiraled bound copy of Man Mistake Eraser and to find out how to correct the mistakes above and draw him back in. IMPORTANT, so that you find the link easily, it's near the top of the page. Don’t forget to download your 2 bonuses so you can start reading right away! How To Play Hard to Get and How to Write a Successful Online Profile.
Ladies, I am really happy to hear of the upturns in your relationships. I really enjoy your emails. I smile when I read of your results! I told you!!!!!!
Keep reading and practising!
Ciao bellas
Alyssa K
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Man Mistake Eraser-How to regain a man's interest REVIEW
Hello Ladies,
How’s it going today? I really hope that you are taking advantage of the warm weather and getting out and about after work when you can! Do not underestimate the value of social proof…another topic for another day!
Have I found an impressive resource for you, ladies! There is no dating or relationship school or college. Some women just have it and some women don’t.
That where I come in. For those of you who need help in this area, I find you the resources you need to help you to get a new perspective on life, make a change in YOU, help you to become one of the women who just have it and get the relationship that you really want with the man of YOUR choice! All you need to do is learn, practise often and have fun with it! Be easy about it…
MAN MISTAKE ERASER - REVIEW
For those of you ladies who feel that you have made mistake after mistake with the man in your life and he is now pulling back and you sense that he is on his way out or that has already checked out, I give you the Man Mistake Eraser- How to Regain His Interest by Mimi Tanner.
WHAT YOU GET LADIES…
It is made up of 11 classes and is 220 pages long! It is a bit different from the other resources in that it is a printed spiral bound book that is mailed directly to your home in discreet packaging of course, have no fear ladies. It comes with 2 bonuses, Hard to Get and How to Write a successful Online Profile. These you can download now and start reading immediately. These whet your appetite while you wait for the main course!
WELL…
You all know that I much rather prefer e-books because they are very discreet. As I say, no-one needs to know about the challenges you are having with the man in your life or the challenges you have been having with men generally so if there is one thing that I would have to critique about this resource, it is that it is hard copy. That makes it harder to stash when company pops in unexpectedly.
BUT…
Ladies, when you receive the Man Mistake Eraser you will easily overlook that. It really does not matter anymore because you now have your guide to making your relationship work even if the man in your life is now inching backwards. All the mistakes you have ever made will be things of the past because at your disposal you now have:
•An easy to read, easy to follow complete course that you can read at your leisure. I recommend that you follow the classes in the order in which they appear and take the time to highlight the parts that speak directly to you so you can revisit quickly in times of crisis. You may need to do a quick review from time to time. Each of us has our own challenges, identify yours and work to overcome it quickly!
•A teaching guide that really cuts to the chase and explains why:
-calling a man too much is always a deal breaker
-why you should never ask a man where the relationship is going
-why you should never throw temper tantrums and let him see you sweat
-you cannot act insecure and clingy
-talking about commitment and marriage too soon when a man is not ready will send him out the door
-you should never tell a man “I love you first”
Ladies, have you made any of the mistakes above? Then you will want to have this in your hands quickly. I just chose a few of the mistakes we have all made at some time or another. You know that you have probably made tons more and the book covers them ALL and provides SOLUTIONS! Work with it.
If you have recently made any of these faux pas and the man you like is now acting fickle and it looks like he is heading through the door, STOP! Do nothing else! DO NOT PASS GO, DO NOT COLLECT $200! Just chill…
You can still recover and regain his interest IF you stop making the mistakes AND have a clear idea of what to do next! Don’t play with this one ladies! Go after what YOU want in the RIGHT way.
HOLD IT…
Are you serious about having the kind of love life you have only dreamed of thus far? Really…
Are you really serious about getting a new perspective and making sure you do NOT make the same mistakes you have been making over and over again? Really…
Are you really serious about recovering from the mistakes you have already made and about getting the man in your life interested in you again? Really…
Are you really serious about inspiring him to want to be with you and only you?
Well okay then, let’s get you started! Click here to go directly to the site where you can order your copy of this teaching guide. IMPORTANT, to make it easy for you, you’ll find the link to the Man Mistake Eraser in the first few lines of the page. Don’t forget to download your free stuff, the 2 bonuses all in one go and become that woman who just HAS IT!
Have fun with this one ladies! As always any questions you know where to find me. askalyssak@gmail.com
Ciao bellas,
Alyssa K
How’s it going today? I really hope that you are taking advantage of the warm weather and getting out and about after work when you can! Do not underestimate the value of social proof…another topic for another day!
Have I found an impressive resource for you, ladies! There is no dating or relationship school or college. Some women just have it and some women don’t.
That where I come in. For those of you who need help in this area, I find you the resources you need to help you to get a new perspective on life, make a change in YOU, help you to become one of the women who just have it and get the relationship that you really want with the man of YOUR choice! All you need to do is learn, practise often and have fun with it! Be easy about it…
MAN MISTAKE ERASER - REVIEW
For those of you ladies who feel that you have made mistake after mistake with the man in your life and he is now pulling back and you sense that he is on his way out or that has already checked out, I give you the Man Mistake Eraser- How to Regain His Interest by Mimi Tanner.
WHAT YOU GET LADIES…
It is made up of 11 classes and is 220 pages long! It is a bit different from the other resources in that it is a printed spiral bound book that is mailed directly to your home in discreet packaging of course, have no fear ladies. It comes with 2 bonuses, Hard to Get and How to Write a successful Online Profile. These you can download now and start reading immediately. These whet your appetite while you wait for the main course!
WELL…
You all know that I much rather prefer e-books because they are very discreet. As I say, no-one needs to know about the challenges you are having with the man in your life or the challenges you have been having with men generally so if there is one thing that I would have to critique about this resource, it is that it is hard copy. That makes it harder to stash when company pops in unexpectedly.
BUT…
Ladies, when you receive the Man Mistake Eraser you will easily overlook that. It really does not matter anymore because you now have your guide to making your relationship work even if the man in your life is now inching backwards. All the mistakes you have ever made will be things of the past because at your disposal you now have:
•An easy to read, easy to follow complete course that you can read at your leisure. I recommend that you follow the classes in the order in which they appear and take the time to highlight the parts that speak directly to you so you can revisit quickly in times of crisis. You may need to do a quick review from time to time. Each of us has our own challenges, identify yours and work to overcome it quickly!
•A teaching guide that really cuts to the chase and explains why:
-calling a man too much is always a deal breaker
-why you should never ask a man where the relationship is going
-why you should never throw temper tantrums and let him see you sweat
-you cannot act insecure and clingy
-talking about commitment and marriage too soon when a man is not ready will send him out the door
-you should never tell a man “I love you first”
Ladies, have you made any of the mistakes above? Then you will want to have this in your hands quickly. I just chose a few of the mistakes we have all made at some time or another. You know that you have probably made tons more and the book covers them ALL and provides SOLUTIONS! Work with it.
If you have recently made any of these faux pas and the man you like is now acting fickle and it looks like he is heading through the door, STOP! Do nothing else! DO NOT PASS GO, DO NOT COLLECT $200! Just chill…
You can still recover and regain his interest IF you stop making the mistakes AND have a clear idea of what to do next! Don’t play with this one ladies! Go after what YOU want in the RIGHT way.
HOLD IT…
Are you serious about having the kind of love life you have only dreamed of thus far? Really…
Are you really serious about getting a new perspective and making sure you do NOT make the same mistakes you have been making over and over again? Really…
Are you really serious about recovering from the mistakes you have already made and about getting the man in your life interested in you again? Really…
Are you really serious about inspiring him to want to be with you and only you?
Well okay then, let’s get you started! Click here to go directly to the site where you can order your copy of this teaching guide. IMPORTANT, to make it easy for you, you’ll find the link to the Man Mistake Eraser in the first few lines of the page. Don’t forget to download your free stuff, the 2 bonuses all in one go and become that woman who just HAS IT!
Have fun with this one ladies! As always any questions you know where to find me. askalyssak@gmail.com
Ciao bellas,
Alyssa K
Monday, May 3, 2010
How can I be more attractive? Lesson from a Party
Hi ladies,
I hope you ladies had a wonderful weekend! I hope you got out and mingled and had fun!
I know I did!
I went to this party on Saturday night. Yes, another one and this one was amazing! There were easily about 200 people there. The music, the food and the people and the company made for an excellent night!
Of course you know in the midst of me dancing up a storm and mingling, I was observing. That way I always have something to let you ladies in on lol…
What is it that makes quality guys approach some ladies and not others at a club or a party? What is it that makes some women more attractive than others regardless of looks?
When I say quality guys I mean the guys are confident, attractive and self-assured, the ones that can have any woman they choose, the ones with swagger, the ones that know they have enough guts to approach any woman without fear of rejection because they know they got it going on…
I am not being superficial here either. Yes a beautiful woman is always going to attract stares from men because men are visual creatures and they will see outer beauty first but outer beauty means nothing if you do not appear attractive to men, unless you have a high attraction quotient (AQ).
I noticed that at this party, there were many of the ladies were very pretty, well put together, hair and nails done, make up on point…
Problem is most of them just sat around in the corner or stood against the wall pouting or looking serious. Hello! It’s a party, nobody died, the music is great and you have your friends all around you, serious eye-candy! What more could you ask for?
Get up and dance, shake a leg, at least put a smile on your face, look and feel confident and radiant. That is what draws people to you generally. I met a few other ladies there as well just because they were dancing up a storm just like I was. Like attracts like…
All of the ladies who were dancing and looking and feeling good and not giving a flip either way were being approached and asked to dance. Men were walking up to us and initiating conversation. If you happen to meet a cool guy great, if not it doesn’t matter. It’s just the opportunity for you to meet new people, flirt, practise your new techniques and keep it moving.
The next time you go to a party:
1.Look your best
2.Feel your best
3.Make up your mind to have fun
4.Smile and look approachable
5.Dance and dance well
6.Flirt like there is no tomorrow
7.Adopt an attitude that says “I do not give a flip about anything, I’m here to have fun”
8.Adopt an attitude that says “I am free and by George I am going to enjoy my freedom”
9.Move around and mingle. Don’t stand or dance in one area or stand talking to one man for the entire night. No ladies…
10.REALLY HAVE FUN!
That is how you start to become a people magnet. That’s one of the first steps to getting him hooked. If you can do this for one night at a party, you can learn to do it for a lifetime quite easily if you have a manual you can follow! Manuals make life so much easier!
If you need some help with this and extra tips for the days after the party where you happened to meet a cool guy you are interested in, click here for this gem of an e-book. You can start reading it tonight and getting in gear.
The techniques in this book are really powerful. You do not know when you'll meet a guy you like and if you really like him, you do NOT want to scare him off. You want to get him hooked on you! That's the objective!
I will hear you ladies tomorrow! If you have any crises between now and then lol, you know where to find me.
Ciao bellas
Alyssa K
I hope you ladies had a wonderful weekend! I hope you got out and mingled and had fun!
I know I did!
I went to this party on Saturday night. Yes, another one and this one was amazing! There were easily about 200 people there. The music, the food and the people and the company made for an excellent night!
Of course you know in the midst of me dancing up a storm and mingling, I was observing. That way I always have something to let you ladies in on lol…
What is it that makes quality guys approach some ladies and not others at a club or a party? What is it that makes some women more attractive than others regardless of looks?
When I say quality guys I mean the guys are confident, attractive and self-assured, the ones that can have any woman they choose, the ones with swagger, the ones that know they have enough guts to approach any woman without fear of rejection because they know they got it going on…
I am not being superficial here either. Yes a beautiful woman is always going to attract stares from men because men are visual creatures and they will see outer beauty first but outer beauty means nothing if you do not appear attractive to men, unless you have a high attraction quotient (AQ).
I noticed that at this party, there were many of the ladies were very pretty, well put together, hair and nails done, make up on point…
Problem is most of them just sat around in the corner or stood against the wall pouting or looking serious. Hello! It’s a party, nobody died, the music is great and you have your friends all around you, serious eye-candy! What more could you ask for?
Get up and dance, shake a leg, at least put a smile on your face, look and feel confident and radiant. That is what draws people to you generally. I met a few other ladies there as well just because they were dancing up a storm just like I was. Like attracts like…
All of the ladies who were dancing and looking and feeling good and not giving a flip either way were being approached and asked to dance. Men were walking up to us and initiating conversation. If you happen to meet a cool guy great, if not it doesn’t matter. It’s just the opportunity for you to meet new people, flirt, practise your new techniques and keep it moving.
The next time you go to a party:
1.Look your best
2.Feel your best
3.Make up your mind to have fun
4.Smile and look approachable
5.Dance and dance well
6.Flirt like there is no tomorrow
7.Adopt an attitude that says “I do not give a flip about anything, I’m here to have fun”
8.Adopt an attitude that says “I am free and by George I am going to enjoy my freedom”
9.Move around and mingle. Don’t stand or dance in one area or stand talking to one man for the entire night. No ladies…
10.REALLY HAVE FUN!
That is how you start to become a people magnet. That’s one of the first steps to getting him hooked. If you can do this for one night at a party, you can learn to do it for a lifetime quite easily if you have a manual you can follow! Manuals make life so much easier!
If you need some help with this and extra tips for the days after the party where you happened to meet a cool guy you are interested in, click here for this gem of an e-book. You can start reading it tonight and getting in gear.
The techniques in this book are really powerful. You do not know when you'll meet a guy you like and if you really like him, you do NOT want to scare him off. You want to get him hooked on you! That's the objective!
I will hear you ladies tomorrow! If you have any crises between now and then lol, you know where to find me.
Ciao bellas
Alyssa K
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